I am currently thinking one way. Maybe some of you ladies can give me or help me digest this…
I am currently thinking one way. Maybe some of you ladies can give me or help me digest this situation more clearly. Verses how I just delt with it. My SO had been quoting he gonna do better with a 2nd job. Rent is about to come up. The original arrangement he want to change. Mainly due to he broke our daughter's tablet (she can wait till her bday in October) and he got tickets to one of the biggest NFL rivalry games here in the south. She is 3. Who pays over 100$ for a game ticket for a 3 year old? We have 2 kids. Who gonna watch the other one that day? I understand he wants her to have what he didn't as a child; same here. Was I wrong to go ahead and ask my fam if they could watch our other child. While he takes the oldest to a football game? They said hell no. Why he can't take both and why his family can't help." I don't like fussing around my kids. Starting to feel like I am in this alone and he getting over on me like crazy. Cause I have no where to go!
Takia Eddie·
I don’t understand he’s getting a second job ? But he is spending more money than he is making
Bitchy Trophy Wife 🏆👰🏼·
Мама двоих (8 лет, 10 лет)
Well his mind set is a 1 year old doesn’t need to be at a foot ball game. They would get bored. But so would a 3 year old. I mean we go to college games all the time and our kids don’t go. They will get bored. But I def wouldn’t take a child that young to an NFL game.
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@takiahilk he just got his job last month. And come to find out he made plans to spend b4 he has gotten paid.
Nancy·
@lana30319, I kinda think it’s cool he wants to take the 3 year old. I’d rather my SO do that than say he wants to go with his boys only. We spend a lot of money on life experiences with our son & we have since he was like 1. I can see your point to though bc my son has forgotten a lot lol. I think I’d be upset with my family if they’re judging me bc I want my older child to go to an NFL game and I wanna leave my baby behind. You’d think they’d be excited for your older child’s first NFL experience...
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@whoswhoo thanks for your insight. Cause the Mercedes Benz stadium is the big rave now. Heck I can't afford to go to an event there
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@damn.it.red we will see what's gonna happen when the time get here. Next month. We argue about this almost all day the other day
He says he gonna take both kids. Lol
Nancy·
@lana30319, hope it all works out!
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@whoswhoo thanks I am at a stand still on the direction to go.