So ever since I had my daughter via C-Section I got really freaked out, it was a very traumatic experience to me. Well…
So ever since I had my daughter via C-Section I got really freaked out, it was a very traumatic experience to me. Well ever since then my husband keeps telling me he wants at least one more baby, me not so much. I decided I didn’t want anything to do with getting pregnant and being at risk for another c- Section so we been very careful and I’m on birth control. Today ( well I think I should say yesterday😂😂) he saw my daily alarm for birth control and he saw what I wrote... “you do not want to get pregnant because that C-Section hurt so bad and it still does” lol he just said “ really Cecy” giving me the biggest smile. When we got back from groceries shopping I was changing clothes and he came up to me and said “could you at least consider giving me a third baby. You’re such a good mom that I want you to have my babies” I mean he said it in such a cute way and gave me the puppy eyes😩😩 so I told him I would think about it🤷🏻♀️🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️😂 This is when I realized how much my hubby has changed. He only wanted one kid (barely), he hated being around children like that just wasn’t his thing, but he said that ever since he looked at our first baby being born he changed his views that he loves being a dad♥️ and honestly I can see it. He loves his baby girls so much that I wish I wasn’t such a baby and give him more babies😂😂😅lol
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Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (4 нед.)
I am on the same boat. My SO wants like 8 kids.
I have an incompetent cervix so i have a very high chance of giving birth prematurely. ( We lost our first at 16 weeks ) With my daughter, I was on bedrest from 12 weeks. Went through a million needles. A million drs appointment. I ended up in surgery to stitch up my cervix to keep baby in, then went back to the operation room to get the stitches out. Did not have the best labor, and had to get an emergency csection 😖🤣 All for one baby....
How am i supposed to survive having 7😭🤣
Elizabeth J·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
Every pregnancy is different it might not be as traumatic as the last ive had a vaginal and c section in my last my c section was amazing healing process and painless I had a harder time trying to deliver then anything
Heather·
Мама сына (6 лет)
You need to give yourself time to physically and emotionally heal from the C-Section. Men do not understand this at all. Don’t let him sweet talk you; do what you need to process the birth and trauma.
Karianne Marie·
I am on somewhat of an opposite boat. My hubby has 3 kids but his 3rd is my first. Her birth (also csec) gave me PTSD. I still have nightmares. I desparetly want another baby but hes not so sure we can afford 4 (even tho no offense he barely gets to see his other 2)
Cecy Mitchell✌️·
@rndmshtt, aww I’m sorry😔 wow all that sounds rough😦
Cecy Mitchell✌️·
@gingiej1207, yeah definitely agree every pregnancy is different. My first I had to get induced that whole process was horrible I developed a fever baby had an infection but overall the vaginal delivery was amazing and the recovery was a piece of cake but with the c section it was a whole different story! I cried the whole time I was getting cut open and recovery was boring lol I’m used to being moving and running around so taking it easy was very hard lol
Cecy Mitchell✌️·
@scruffy.nerf.herder, yes agree they don’t realize all the stuff we have to go through. He wants another baby 3-4 years from now but honestly I’m just really scared every time I watch c section videos I go numb. Like I just don’t want to go through that again😔
Cecy Mitchell✌️·
@kariannemarie, omg no way! I’m sorry to hear that😔
Elizabeth J·
Мама двоих (1 год, 5 лет)
@aubreyandvioletsmommy Girl child birth is rough pregnancy period I wanted a third but decided to get my tubes done while I was able to I'm good with 2
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I absolutely loved my csections. They were incredible and hubby watched both, he helped pull them out and cut both of their chords. I chose to do my second one over vbac. I will tell you this though, if you choose to go again with a second csection you will be more sore because they reopen the first scar. However the scar will heal and look just as beautiful as the first time. Also if you need support you can write me, I have only positive and wonderful things to say about csections
Karianne Marie·
@aubreyandvioletsmommy im sorry to hear about your experience as well, i plan on having one more but will not be going to the same hospital
Cecy Mitchell✌️·
@vvrobinson, yeah my hubby and mom were a huge help but since I’ve NEVER had surgery it was a bit rough and it was a sudden c section. I went to my doctors appointment Friday and had to go see a specialist and that day I got a call saying that they scheduled my c section for that Monday so I didn’t have time to process so I was freaking out and still am😂 and the scar, girl let me tell you! I can’t even see it! It’s so small! And thank you so much♥️♥️
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@aubreyandvioletsmommy it my first surgery too. My first went breech at 37 weeks. We scheduled for 39.1. I went into labor naturally at 38.6 and my doc wasn't there. Another amazing doctor did the surgery. I healed extremely fast and very well. But I started having severe gallbladder attacks. By three months pp I was having attacks every other day and they lasted more than 45 minutes. I got my gallbladder surgery then. Second time I had preeclampsia, went in for my final appointment at 38.1 and found out I needed to have her out next morning. Had ny csection at 38.2. I didn't really get a chance to sleep and relax, anxiety was through the roof.