I think I’m getting a little frustrated with my boyfriend😒.... For the simple fact he can go as he…

He has just as much responsibility for the children and home as you- he can not come and go as he pleases. Have a chat and make your expectations clear. Otherwise change the locks and he can only go as he pleases cause he can’t come unless you say so....

You can go as you please too, you are not a tree. You can go out with your friends as well (with your baby or dropping her off with a grandma, maybe?) and have fun, maybe shouldn’t go clubbing but you can go have lunch or dinner! Pregnancy can be so boring, just have to find the things that will make you feel good and do them for yourself. And if you need to get out of the house real bad, you can always go to the mall or take babygirl to the park. Things like that have helped me in moments where I did feel like that, it use to happen too often with my ex husband, he didn’t have his priorities in check and was more concerned about his social life and work than anything else. So I just started doing me and focusing on my kids so much so that now he’s my ex lol

Um, no. He is just as responsible for your kids and home as you are. At some point we all need to grow up and leave the party behind. It's cool to go out and have fun, but not at the expense of your family.

I would definitely talk to him about it. He’s also the parent so he has or should have the same responsibility for them that you have. He should not be able to go any time he wants without any consideration for you and HIS child. Sounds like he may need a reality check and to grow up a little. Maybe discuss with him the possibility that you each get one night a week to yourself and to see friends and the other 6 nights you work together to tackle responsibilities at home or spend time together/go out together either getting a sitter or doing something as a family. If you don’t say something, he will probably continue doing what he’s doing because guys can be dumb like that. They take silence as unspoken permission to do whatever it is they please (at least mine does).

I feel you, I think it’s just a phase... my husband used to be like that too😭😩 he would go out every weekend and leave me here it would annoy me so much.. but after our second son he changed a lot and doesn’t go out at all anymore.. as far as having time for myself.. I don’t but it’s ok. I love being a stay at home mom and doing my wifey duties. I will go out to get my nails done etc and just take my kids along with me😬 cause I have no friends 🙄😆

I think a lot of men are about to be gay or some shit all women are tired of they’re shit

I know the feeling he my kids father doesn’t go out but he always disappears just find a reason to go somewhere why I never have a break besides when his cousin gets them

Yeah he can go as he pleases because you dont own him, however he should know he has to help, after all he is also the parent. He is doing what you have allowed him to do which is do whatever he wants and forget he has resposabilities at home. He needs to go out and breathe as much as you do! And so you SHOULD and you CAN go out because you are also able to do as you please, simply take your 2yr along or if possible have someone watch her for a few hours.

Making sure dinner is ready?? What are you? A restaurant??

If he goes out ....he can eat out or cook his own meal once he is back.

I mean after all you are taking care of your child, feed your kid and yourself and forget the rest.