Guys there is like not a sex life for me anymore. Lol and sadly i chose that... not because i wanted…

Guys there is like not a sex life for me anymore. Lol and sadly i chose that... not because i wanted to but... ryder has an Umbilical hernia and no, i don't know much about hernias, but i think they can rupture, right? And well... i don't want that to happen... he said it always hurts afterwards. 😭 so i told myself no more until he gets it taken care of.