Serious question.... what do I do when calmly explaining to my husband that I need help doesn't work? It's gotten to the point where I have to be crying in order for him to even come in and look at his kids.... he hasn't changed a diaper since B was born (month ago) and last night when I calmly asked him to help with diapers he said "what one is poopy?" When I said both he went in, grabbed a diaper, came back and threw it at me, then went straight to bed.. we haven't slept in the same bed since B was born because the baby cries at night and he can't handle it.... so I have both boys 24/7
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@lii94, I can't lose my shit anymore. It's messing with the 2 year old and I can't handle being constantly angry anymore.
@ek620, the problem is that he will just let them cry until I get home. He did it with our 2 year old before the baby was born
Girl. Id lose my shit and if that didnt work 🙋🚶📦
Sounds like you might just need to leave the kids with him for an afternoon while you do something nice for yourself. You’ll get a break & he’ll be forced to pick up the slack. Maybe he’ll have a greater appreciation for how hard it is to take care of two kids with no help.
@honeyxxbee, he was but not quite to this extent. He would change at least one diaper a day and I was able to have him watch our son while I ran to the store. Right now I can't even go to the bathroom without him sitting on the edge of the tub holding the baby.
@lilmommy93 sounds toxic nore then anything. Id honestly leave.