Serious question.... what do I do when calmly explaining to my husband that I need help doesn't work? It's gotten to the point where I have to be crying in order for him to even come in and look at his kids.... he hasn't changed a diaper since B was born (month ago) and last night when I calmly asked him to help with diapers he said "what one is poopy?" When I said both he went in, grabbed a diaper, came back and threw it at me, then went straight to bed.. we haven't slept in the same bed since B was born because the baby cries at night and he can't handle it.... so I have both boys 24/7