For once I was able to get 2 days off back to back! First day I stayed at home cooked and cleaned!…
For once I was able to get 2 days off back to back! First day I stayed at home cooked and cleaned! You still complained caused I didn't do what you wanted me to do. 2nd day I took the kids to the park and play area and watched my niece and nephew. You wake me up out my sleep to tell me I need to take care of my house! Just cause you work 2 jobs. Don't give you the right to be my dad! I have one! The small play area the kids can clean up when they get up! Its called teaching responsibility. Ya ass pass by the compactor but when I tell you to take the trash you say no! Hint MF you ask not tell! See how it feels! If I have to work full-time, transport the kids, cook and clean, put 90% of the stuff in the home (with bills) what are you for? I can buy a dildo if I want to have sex! I can stress my own self out over bills! My own family felt sorry for me and bought OUR KIDS some clothes and shoes that fits them. They say don't kick a man when he is down. And we suppose to have our SO backs. Is there a time/cut off to this? How much is enough and where do you draw the line?
Heather·
Мама сына (6 лет)
Wait... so he’s working two jobs? What kind of hours? That might explain his irritability and lack of motivation. Maybe he is exhausted! Just like I’m sure you are! I’m also a working mom, so I know how damn difficult it is to balance all the responsibilities. But maybe cut him some slack too? Because it sounds like maybe you both are just really tired 😓
Takia Eddie·
I understand you both maybe exhausted but I’m quite sure it’s easier going to work than going to work and then coming home to More Work it gets exhausting and trying to spent time with the kiddos too
Lanie Jay·
If he’s working 2 jobs and you’re working full time and you still can’t make ends meet, perhaps taking with a financial advisor would be good.
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@laniejay idk if he will he would not do marriage counciling. And I found out last year he been secretly gambling. Whereas b4 then I assumed he was sending money to his other kids.
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@takiahilk he only has the girls 2 days out the week. N he takes off work both jobs. So other than that I drive the kids to my mom and sister and that's exhausting. I try to be understanding untill he complains that I should of and could of.. and brag about what he can do.
Takia Eddie·
@lana30319, if he can do it all then he’d simple do it men always complaining I told my husband be grateful you have someone who doesn’t mind going to work and helping you most women wanna stay home no judgement here but I refuse to be a mans dependent
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Amen! Some things are better off left alone. He has alot going for himself. Other kids two jobs and you still have to hold down the fort contribute majority don't have no balance in it. He should step it up and hope you two work it out.
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@takiahilk I need to remind mine of that. Especially from how I have heard some females are from his home town
Takia Eddie·
@lana30319, exactly but will call woman ungrateful when she asks you for help with your kids or household I don’t think they understand that we can go to work and manage everything on our own hell even sex
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@takiahilk wow! My sister gave me a lecture very similar to what u just said! You must have been talking to her? Lol.
Takia Eddie·
@lana30319, lol great minds think alike
marlena jones ·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
@ksal9028 I agree no excuse to be a dick! I have my flaws also. I just hate he thinks working 2 job exempt him from helping out. And just last night he told me I don't do shit! Waking up b4 the kids do. After leaving work at 12am, nap and clean both bathrooms! If that being lazy. Then I am guilty!