You know I said the same thing with one kid...how am I going to be able to take care of this kid and my selfish self!?!?. Then came my fiancé and our second child...how in the world am I going to be able to take care of myself, 2 kids, a full time job AND a fiancé???? Now here I am with my husband 2 kids in and expecting my 3rd in January also with a full time job..I now tell myself..You got this..so no advice, just a testimonial and a YOU GOT THIS MAMA!

Take it from someone with 6 boys... Depending on age.. get oldest to help with the younger ones... Kinda just get a routine down that honestly helps kids in the long run! Set boundaries, use time out if needed.. if kids are getting to be too much just take a break. Send them to their room to play, or give them a snack and just let things blow over. You'll get the hang of it. It's not as bad..just look at it like they can play with one another.. til the fighting happens that is. 😂

Same boat 😩 Following for the same advice !!

Girl, my daughter is 2 months old and I'm still trying to figure that out. Lucky (or unlucky, depending on how you look at it) for me, my boyfriend and I broke up when she was 4 weeks so I dnt have a man to tend to lol. But, I also dnt have any help in the house now that he moved out. I'm sure you'll figure out a rhythm that works for your family. My best advice is don't try and stick to a full blown schedule in the beginning. I had expectations of myself that I just simply could not meet. Dnt put too much pressure on yourself when certain things can't get done. I have now learned being a mother of 3 that "going with the flow" is key 😊❤