Trying not to cry over the fact that I may not have a baby shower!! I’m sad because I was going to plan it myself but then my mom told me that she and her friend would plan it but so far nothing. Every time I ask them something it’s always excuses. They just really don’t understand how important everything is to me right now!! 😔
If you really want one , pick a date and a place . ...book it . Then have them help. Or maybe you can just plan a small one at your house or something .
@itty_bitty, maybe you shouldn’t be so quick to pass judgement.. I lost my first son it’ll be a year in just a few days!
Do it ur self. U know how u like everything u know what u want just do it.
That comment wasn’t called for at all regardless of the situation.. I hope everything works out love!
@shay2beautiful ignore her ignorant comment.
What if they're trying to surprise you? I would just be really honest and jump on board with the shower they're planning and start getting things together😊
@itty_bitty, that’s none of your business .....get your head out of your ass that was so rude.
@shay2beautiful, maybe they’re planning a surprise? If you’re very unsure I would plan a small get together :)
@itty_bitty, and your point is? She can be upset if she wants to why you so mean? There’s a saying in Spanish calladita te ves más bonita
@shannae3, that’s what I’ll end up doing if they don’t have anything started. @veemndz, @joselin.salazar47, I’m really hoping that they are trying to surprise me. @alopezm1414, right like I know plenty of people that have multiple baby showers
@itty_bitty, wow that was rude. Let her do whatever she wants. Even if her first baby was actually alive if she wants to have another baby shower so what?
@shay2beautiful, I’m sorry for your loss. How about you try to throw a small get together at your place?
@p., Thanks hun and I will plan to do that if they don’t have anything started yet! 💙
@shay2beautiful, idk why she felt the need to even say that she could have just scrolled on
But I’m sorry for your loss love
❤️❤️❤️❤️
And honestly for a baby shower do you have any close cousins or friends ask them to help coordinate one if your mom isn’t going to do it
@alopezm1414, I only have one friend and she didn’t want to take on the task of the baby shower this year because she lost out on all her money last year for the baby shower she planned for my first son 😔 I wasn’t going to dare ask her to do it though. I’m just going to plan it with my husband if my mom doesn’t do it.
@ksal9028, Thanks hun and I don’t know anything either lol I’ll just look online for tips
@shay2beautiful, oh okay well I’m glad you have the support of your husband you’ll figure it out and I hope everything goes well 💓
Dont cry, horomones probably not helping either 😞 i was let down about a baby shower with my last pregnancy i never had one before. I say if you want one just plan it do a pot luck so your not cooking everything its a time for you to relax. You have lots a time dont stress. 💞
@shay2beautiful I hope you do get your baby shower I'm not getting one and its my first so I have tried to act like its okay and almost done with my shopping list lol. And you deserve to have however many showers your heart desires.
@itty_bitty Keep your nasty negative rude uncalled for comments all to yourself.
Hey hun, there's nothing wrong with planning it yourself. When I first got pregnant with my newborn my sister in law had offered to plan it. But as I got closer to my due date she had nothing planned. So I took it upon myself and planned it in two weeks. I knew if I relied on someone I wouldn't have had one. My baby shower was small and at my house with close friends and family. I hope you get your baby shower! Good luck, ❤
Shalyn Carden·
@itty_bitty, maybe you shouldn’t be so quick to pass judgement.. I lost my first son it’ll be a year in just a few days!
Jessie ·
@itty_bitty, that’s none of your business .....get your head out of your ass that was so rude.