It seems other mothers love to point out what your doing wrong or what you need to be doing…
It seems other mothers love to point out what your doing wrong or what you need to be doing differently. Tends to be really petty stuff too. Does this continue for the rest of her life or is it just because I'm a new mother?
Kayleigh·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)
Someone's always got some sort advice on how to do it better... I switch off... It's like Blahhhhhh!!!! Boring
Keep doing what your doing... everyone's different 💪
Jodie ·
It never stops but I think when you have a new born you think about it abit more but don't listen to them your doing great 😊 x
T ·
Just ignore them hun, there’s always one that’s going to say something or compare you to them or how their daughter, sister etc is doin things. At first it would wind me up but after a bit I just totally blanked them kinda comments or answer with a sarky comment depending on my mood lol they soon stopped bothering lol xx
Clare Pye·
Мама дочки-младенца
@kayleighbean1 it's really annoying and majority of the time it's unnecessary. I heard about momzillas like that when I was pregnant but experiencing them is something else all together x
Kayleigh·
Мама дочки (3 года), беременна (37 нед.)
@clarelushx oh there everywhere and have an opinion on just about everything!!! Just aslong as I don't turn into one 🤣x
Emma Teresa·
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Lol someone who never even had kids or been pregnant was telling me what she thinks I’m feeling & what I should be doing & watching out for 🤣 I was like ok huns 🤣🤣 ... I’ve found everyone has something to say I just ignore it lol x
Clare Pye·
Мама дочки-младенца
@jodiedillon3 I was hoping it would stop at a certain age. How am I gunna constantly bite my tongue 😣 just gunna have to ignore them x
Jodie ·
@clarelushx I know it still makes me mad now people say well my little boy was walking at his age or I didn't give my child that or I didn't do that! But trust me you learn to ignore it or you can politely remind them that this is your baby and you don't need there opinions 😊 x
Clare Pye·
Мама дочки-младенца
@x-t-x don't get me wrong I'm great full for any proper advice but a lot of this is a bit too much. Somebody came round earlier and told me I need to be prepared for if a cat broke into my house incase the cat got in her face. How the f is a cat going to appear in my house. Just nod and agree. Lol x
Clare Pye·
Мама дочки-младенца
@em93bbourn that's a totally different level and sounds pretty awkward too! 🙈😂 it's honestly a nightmare. Wasnt expecting it to be this ridiculous x
Emma Teresa·
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@clarelushx, lol 😂 even her bf was like do you have a baby I don’t know about ! lol 😆 Yeah it’s so weird why people do it.. xx
Clare Pye·
Мама дочки-младенца
@jodiedillon3 and you can't please everybody either. I had one set of people saying my girl needed her first bath and a separate group saying I should leave it as long as possible. I think you really are just best of following your instincts. They know best x
Kerry.·
Everyone does things differently. Advice is given freely it's your choice to take it not hun..
Some people just have far too much to say at times.
Aslong as she's being fed & strapped in her car seat properly, I'm sure you're doing a great job, Everything else is just winging it! 😂x
Jodie ·
@clarelushx you are defiantly are right about following your own instincts only mum knows best and its up to when you want to bath baby it makes me laugh because I dunno why people think they have to do this with babies I don't see anyone doing it to adults it's like the man down the road saying I think you should have a bath tonight and the woman from over there said no you don't need a bath till next week 😂it don't happen with adults so why babies ! Just ignore them you know what's best for your baby ! X
Clare Pye·
Мама дочки-младенца
@jodiedillon3 omg that's actually spot on! 😂 never thought of it like that but it is unusual behaviour 😂 I'm gunna slip that out there if it comes up in topic again, or something similar x
Jodie ·
@clarelushx it's true tho right 😂 x