@ek620 he is extra mean or emotional and his moods switch so fast he gets angry and lashes out on every one thats around at the time including workers to strangers to close family.
He is very quick to accuse someone of lieing to him and very fast to judge people
Hes says hes always sad
He is very judgemental and harsh with everyone
He says that the truth hurts
He is never nice when hes trying to teach someone something
Hes very short with people
Very wishy washy
Makes rash decisions
Says things that are very hurtful and feels no remorse for the things he says
(He was not like this before I got pregnant, now i feel like he's going crazy and loosing his mind, he was no wear as crazy with his emotions as now)
@angelbrownell26 honestly the best way to help him if it is the baby is to give him as much space as possible and stop talking about the coming baby for a while
@ohnstadk okay! I've diffently been doing this. He askes me to do things with him is when i do things with him otherwise i just let him be unless im feeling really lonely or sad. Could it be sympathy pains?
@ksal9028 no. He only smoked pot. He quit that a month ago. He hates pills and i have to force him to even take meds for headaches. He hates the drs. And he is always around me or in the game room in our house or working driving a taxi.
I know my husband got kinda distant when I was pregnant with our first... after he was born he finally confessed that he was worried about how we would do it all. Work, take care of baby, afford everything (we had just bought a house also). The thought of it all coming at once was stressing him out so bad... I didn’t think about it all because I was stressing about carrying a baby and giving birth so I never put it all together til he actually spelled it out for me. We agreed to do better communicating our stresses so we didn’t freeze or lash out at each other anymore...
@bartlett425 awww! Well this is great to know. I'm diffently thinking this could be it. It not always this bad. Infact he was extremely sweet and patient and understanding on a night i had gone potty all night. Then i took our dog out and brought him back in then he pooped then peeed on our blenket. So i cleaned the mess and hubby was so upset the dog peed on the blenket and only had a sheet to cover up with. Hubby also had to wake up at 5am for work. I tolled him i was sorry for keeping him up all night. Especially because that day at work while he was driving he almost drove into a ditch because he was falling asleep at the wheel. He was so sweet and was not upset one bit. He was completely understanding and loving about the situation.
Newlyironman·
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How old is he?
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@newlyironman 31 with our first bsby due November 12
The EK 💁🏼♀️·
What’s he doing that makes you think he may be having one?
Newlyironman·
Мама двоих (1 год, 4 года)
He's probably anxious about the MASSIVE life change he's facing
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@ek620 he is extra mean or emotional and his moods switch so fast he gets angry and lashes out on every one thats around at the time including workers to strangers to close family.
He is very quick to accuse someone of lieing to him and very fast to judge people
Hes says hes always sad
He is very judgemental and harsh with everyone
He says that the truth hurts
He is never nice when hes trying to teach someone something
Hes very short with people
Very wishy washy
Makes rash decisions
Says things that are very hurtful and feels no remorse for the things he says
(He was not like this before I got pregnant, now i feel like he's going crazy and loosing his mind, he was no wear as crazy with his emotions as now)
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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He was actually a lot easier to deal with , patient and understanding
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@newlyironman yes he probably is. I've never seen him like this. Is there anyway i can help him? You have any tips?
Kimberly Ohnstad ·
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@angelbrownell26 honestly the best way to help him if it is the baby is to give him as much space as possible and stop talking about the coming baby for a while
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@ohnstadk okay! I've diffently been doing this. He askes me to do things with him is when i do things with him otherwise i just let him be unless im feeling really lonely or sad. Could it be sympathy pains?
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@ksal9028 no. He only smoked pot. He quit that a month ago. He hates pills and i have to force him to even take meds for headaches. He hates the drs. And he is always around me or in the game room in our house or working driving a taxi.
Amanda Bartlett ·
Мама сына (2 года), беременна (39 нед.)
I know my husband got kinda distant when I was pregnant with our first... after he was born he finally confessed that he was worried about how we would do it all. Work, take care of baby, afford everything (we had just bought a house also). The thought of it all coming at once was stressing him out so bad... I didn’t think about it all because I was stressing about carrying a baby and giving birth so I never put it all together til he actually spelled it out for me. We agreed to do better communicating our stresses so we didn’t freeze or lash out at each other anymore...
AngelFirstTimeMommy·
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@bartlett425 awww! Well this is great to know. I'm diffently thinking this could be it. It not always this bad. Infact he was extremely sweet and patient and understanding on a night i had gone potty all night. Then i took our dog out and brought him back in then he pooped then peeed on our blenket. So i cleaned the mess and hubby was so upset the dog peed on the blenket and only had a sheet to cover up with. Hubby also had to wake up at 5am for work. I tolled him i was sorry for keeping him up all night. Especially because that day at work while he was driving he almost drove into a ditch because he was falling asleep at the wheel. He was so sweet and was not upset one bit. He was completely understanding and loving about the situation.