Omg ladies my 3 year old just asked me if i have sex with her daddy!!! I dodged that question so fast but ladies really my daughter is growing up too fast and too smart for her own good. I dont even know what to tell her if she ask again I thought i had a little longer before she asked that. I texted my husband telling him and he just laughed. He is no help.
Wow... How on earth would a 3 year old know about sex!? I'd be fuming! And finding out how she knows!!! MAJOR RED FLAG.
@masseymomma16 @ella_j_heart. She hears it from my sisters. They are teens.she dosent know what it means she just know the words.
@britt. She just know the word not wbat it means and from my sisters.
My five year old doesn't even know that word. She obviously has heard enough to ask if you have sex bc she used the word in the right context. Id be mad as hell at my sisters for that shit
Yall kids now a days are hearing AND REPEATING so many words bad and good. I dont think shed post on here if she didnt know where her daughter learned the word from
She clearly knows what it means if she asked you if you did it with your husband.
She may not know what it completely entails... But she knew enough about it to use it in context!
@veemitchell I am going to have to talk to my sisters but i know the one she learned it from is really childish and will say it again around her so i am going to have to talk to my mom because she is also not right in the head and like to say shit like that to piss me off. She has also told her to tell her she is going to run away and how i am a bad mom.
@lillynellasmom daaaamn that's unreal. I wouldn't have her around my kids tbh. Like I get she's your sister but wow
@kariannemarie. Thank you i just dont know how to tell her what it mean or even if i should. Because this is a new one for me. It was easy when it was a bad word and told her she doesn't say that and now she tells people it is a bad word and you dont say it.
@britt. Yes just like she know what anxiety me and how to as well she is really smart. She pick it up quickly.
@lillynellasmom the only solution is to keep her away from her sister. I don't know if you live together or not if you do you need to put your foot down and tell her like it is. If you don't keep her away from her
If she only knew the word she wouldn't know to ask if you hand sex with your hubby... I'd be talking to your sisters
I agree with the other ladies! If I were you I'd be telling your sister to watch their mouth around my daughter! that is ridicious for a 3 year old to ask such a thing. I would not shrug this off so easily.
@hazelnautumnsmomma125 ob i just did and i got no were with her she said she doesnt say that word and then my mom and other sister got on her side to say she doesn't and she got it from the movies and that the only time they say that word and i told her she has flat out asked me when do me and my husband have time to have sex. Then she try to say she cought us i told her no she is always asleep before we do that and we have the door close. I hate when my family treat my sister like nothing is wrong and baby her then get mad at me. I know my mom will call or come talk to me later saying she talked to her and how i know how she is blah blah.
@laniejay no i go over there to there house and i let my daughter spend the night sometimes.
@laniejay I have had somewhat of the similar problem with the same sister talking to my daughter and my family taking her side then they turn around and say that we talked to her and she was just getting out of hand cuz she's not taking her meds again and that they dont have younger kids around them that they have to get used to being able to talk differently.
@lillynellasmom, maybe it’s time to say no more overnights and they can only visit with her when you can supervise.
I wouldn't allow my daughter over there for overnights especially if one of them is I am assuming mentally unstable? Sadly you can't trust everyone even family.
@riasm85 That the thing is if i do that then I will get i am only doing that because my husband is brain washing me and them giving me more stress so i have to do it slowly and like we are busy a lot more. That would be from my mom saying that she did it last time i had to get on to my sister.
@laniejay I am with her all the time the only time is when she spends the night so she wont be in till i know my mom deals with my sister and or i can talk to her and make her understand what she is doing and making sure she is taking her meds.
@masseymomma16 I'm no i am going to make sure she is taking her med and make sure she know that she cant talk like that or have my mom really talk to her and have to do what i did like last time. Hopefully they will understand and not turn it around on me.
@lillynellasmom i would keep my kids away from her then if it were me. I'm sorry girl.
@hazelnautumnsmomma125 its okay i was able to ask lilly if she knew what sex mean and she said yes then i said what does it mean she said it when you kiss and kiss. Then i asked her do you ever see me kiss your daddy and she told me no that why she asked me.
@mamaofzuri I last time this happened and they said he was controling me and i said he has no control over me i was doing it for my daughter my mom webt so crazy on me and said it was all because of my husband and i did not let them see my daughter for a while and i got called and text and her showing up at my house. This is why my sister thinks she can do and be the way she is is because of my mother. So i have to do it the way i know with out getting stressted out and them attacking me it may sound stupid but that the way i have to do it and have done it in the past.
@mamaofzuri well i am sorry but the only way i know how to deal with them to keep my self from going off and doing something stupid.
MassMomma16·
How would a 3 year old even know the word sex? 🤔
Veemit Chell·
My five year old doesn't even know that word. She obviously has heard enough to ask if you have sex bc she used the word in the right context. Id be mad as hell at my sisters for that shit