I’m sorry that has to be hard to deal with. Whatever you r feeling and whatever you choose to do is ur right. No one could handle that situation perfectly. Hang in there!

I wouldn’t be able to do it. I’m in a similar situation minus the baby and I can’t be with my man. It’s feelings there no matter if he tells you the truth about it or not. Why would he want to talk to her so much if he didn’t get some type of satisfaction out of it. He did it because he knew you weren’t around and it would be easier so obviously he does it when you are around just more sneakier about it. I can’t share. The only thing they have to talk about is that baby and I’m sure that’s not needing to be talked about until three in the morning when I’m not around. There’s no telling what kind of words was exchanged in the time being. Nope. I will not be or feel like the other woman.

Well if it were me and I had a baby with him, I'd attempt to work things out. But I'd make sure I was doing everything possible NOT to have another child with him. (For the moment.) him being comfortable with another women enough to sleep with her, AND have a child with her, in a 6 month time span... Says A LOT about his character to me. It also shows how irresponsible he is. We'd have big problems that I'm not sure I could work thru. But I'd try.

@thequeen, he is we have been together since 2016 but we split after my daughter was born for about 6 months then decided to work on things

I don’t mean to prod so feel free not to answer but is he your daughters father?

@thequeen, we broke up for like 6 months and both started dating other ppl then we came back together @memybumpandi_, it bothers me a lot she is in another state and I told him to ask about the baby but I left for a funeral for two days and they were talking the whole time he stayed home while I was with family

Idk how I’d feel cause I probably would’ve left them at that point tbh