So sick of waking up all night. My first slept very well very early. He does not. Like I really feel…

Focus your anger on your husband. That’s what I do. I’ve done every single thing for my child by myself since he came home. So before my body got use to no sleep on my way to fix the bottle while the bottle was warming and on my way back to the room I would cuss my baby daddy out. 😂 I stopped when I got to the door. Seriously made me feel a shit ton better! I mean since your married it’s different then my situation. You could try talking to him first. Tell him your exhausted because you do it all night and if he don’t want to help through the night then he can let you take a nap during the day. He can take care of y’all kids.

He’s a month old... did you expect him to sleep through the night? You were lucky with your first, but waking is absolutely normal behavior at that age. You shouldn’t be angry.

My daughter also slept very good starting at a month and so on, but my son is 8 months old and has never slept well and still doesn't sleep through the night! All babies are different, but I can see why you're frustrated you dont have help, it's not your babies fault though. Maybe talk to your doctor about your feelings you could be having some kind of ppd

@sadie.w, he won’t drink more per feeding. He’s getting up a normal amount of times I’m just tired that’s all was a rough night

@destiny7685, I can do it in my head instead of out loud 😂😂

@laniejay, I’m not angry at my baby! He’s doing what he’s supposed to. I’m angry at my husband for not even pretending to care and not helping me

@mj21on3, I’m not mad at my baby! Rereading my post I see where it sounds that way, he’s doing what he’s supposed to. He’s hungry so he cries for food, I’m just mad at my lazy husband.

Just a brief middle of the night emotion. Thank you guys!

Have a talk with your husband. Tell him it's his turn every other night or every other feeding. Since I breastfed my husband would get up with the baby and change the diaper and hand him to me. I would feed him and put him back in bed. He sleeps though the night now and my husband gets up at 7 with him and its 10 and I'm about to get out of bed. I'm not sure if yours is just not willing to help but its worth talking about.

@jmedina, I knew before marrying him he doesn’t do diapers. He just doesn’t. And he’s working like crazy because I can’t. I get WHY he doesn’t get up with the baby, I’m just so tired is all. I don’t get a break

@liz41395, it’s funner out loud js 😂 my baby daddy don’t do anything for our son. 😒😒

@destiny7685, but they sure didn’t mind the work to make him huh 🙄

@liz41395, I guess he thinks the whole 3 minutes was enough work. 😂