How do you ladies do it with multiple children??? I work full time and maybe have two hours with my son when I get home, sometimes less. We are thinking about having a second bu...

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How do you ladies do it with multiple children??? I work full time and maybe have two hours with my son when I get home, sometimes less. We are thinking about having a second but I don’t know if it’s possible! How do you make it work? Or have you decided one is enough? Any advice is appreciated!

Newlyironman · Answer

Both my parents worked full time from the time I was 2 wks old. I'm the youngest of 2. I don't look back on my childhood and think that they weren't around or even remember being in daycare. I remember game night on Fridays. Walks and bike rides on the weekend.  And i remember playing with my sister. We're 2 years apart so we grew up close.

Trust me, you feel more guilty about the lack of time than anything. As  long is your children's needs are met, they just know there are lots of people who love them. Not that any one loves them less!

Im a sahm and still feel my mother was a better mom then I am!

Also, my mom is basically one of my best friends. Like I said, she worked full time.  My husband's mom was a sahm... They are not close

Rj · Answer

Girl take your time dont have one after the other its hard work my babies are 5 1/2 years apart and it gets crazy sometimes and spend as much time as you can with your  boy try working part time,  im a stay at home mom and its the best , good luck ❤

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