Why is it so hard to find a girl friend, I feel like I'm surrounded by guys and my step daughter. I…

Why is it so hard to find a girl friend, I feel like I'm surrounded by guys and my step daughter. I love my step daughter but you can't talk to a child about everything lol. Idk the population in buffalo, but theres alot of people and yet somehow none of them are looking for friends 😒 maybe it's not them it's me 🤔😔 either way I'm getting really tired of no family or girl friends 😭 I love it here but it sucks moving so far away from family/friends 😭