Can someone who knows about conceiving dates help me please

You won’t know until you get a dna test

What’s your question

I am 18 weeks and 2 days

Where does that put me like what day exaclty did i get prego im confused with all this an i cheated on my.boyfriend im worried its not.His 😣😣😣 im scared to tell him but i have to but i want to make sure first what day it was i will know by that day

@laniejay yeah well thanks for that uplifting advise

Well here’s the thing your due date is based on your last period if you were with both men shortly there after and I assume by this question you were what @laniejay, said is correct. Sperm have the ability to live a week inside your body. So you need to come clean and fess up to your boyfriend

Well we arent together anymore havent bin for a month now i already text him an told him

I just want to know where does it put me as a conceiving date its Definatly his if what u saying about the sperm

Is true an if it was on a monday Tuesday then its his

Now say you have a perfect text book cycle you would have started your period week of 3/19 add 14 days to that boom you’d ovulate which takes us to week of 4/2 egg is good for 24hrs approximately. So any sex between last week of March first week of April could have contained the sperm that resulted in conception who it belonged too only a dna test can say

Ok but 18 weeks and 2 days put me as i got pregnant on march 13th i didnt have my period that week at all i had just got off of it

Ok dna testing can it be done at home ? Before the birth of baby or has to be a lab an pay all that money

That’s not the way it works sweetheart. There’s not a person on this planet who can say you conceived on a certain day you can only get an estimated window which as I said is pretty big because nobody can confirm which day you ovulated and what sperm was inside your body at the right spot for conception to occur. Pregnancy calculations are based on averages not exacts

Your 18 wks 2days is based on the first day of your last period

I cheated on him only one time and it was Friday night march 16th

What was the first day of your last period

Ohh ok so i add on two weeks to that? Meaning i got pregnant two weeks after march 13th?

Do you have a 28 day cycle or is it longer than that

I had irregular periods the 18 weeks and 2 days was based off an ultrasound they did

Yeah your best bet is a dna test with irregular cycles the math doesn’t work. Since it’s all averages. And yes you do have to pay a lab for prenatal dna testing there’s no at home version of that.

Your conception window with an irregular cycle gets bigger if you’re not tracking ovulation. Anyway good luck

Chances are good it’s the ex but only a dna test can say for sure.

Ok thank u so much

You can do a non invasive DNA test right now, it’ll run you around $1000

Just do the dna test. Then you know for sure who the dad is.