Do you ladies think its ok for guys(husband,fiance) to have girls that are friends? Who they hsve…

Depends on the situation. I’m pretty good at getting gut feelings when it comes to other women around my bf. So if I get a bad feeling I tell him. But there’s some of his female friends I’m ok with.

Nopw

Nope

Of course! We had lives before we met each other. I have friends that just happen to be guys, he has friends that are girls. There's not something sexual going on just because we're opposite sexes. It's part of being a grown up.

Yes

Yes if they are ok with her and I being friends/ getting to know each other. If they are not ok with it then it's sketchy

Yes. Insecurity will ruin a relationship just as much as cheating will.

@db413 @fiestymama @sassybitch @pettybetty @ecahanes hes from europe so they have grew up together. She was married bt is single now.. she knows hes married n all. Idk her personally cuz she doesnt even live in the same state as us.. i mean i am not bothered by it of course he had a life before me. But also we have been together for 8yrs now too and i do trust him.. i was jst tought by my exs no its not ok to hsve friends in the opposite sex.

@kambam thank you i do agree.

Yes. Some of my husband’s female friends have become my friends. Vice versa for my male friends. These are friends that we’ve never had an intimate connection with. He did have one female friend who decided she wanted more and tried to pursue that, but my husband immediately identified it, called her out and cut ties.

When I was younger I would have said no but I realize now that if you're in a relationship where you can't trust each other to have friends maybe the relationship needs work or needs to end. I had to work on myself and figure out my own insecurities. We both have friends of the opposite sex but make sure not to do anything that would make the other person uncomfortable

Well, I'm secure in myself and I trust my so, so it's a non issue.

Between work and spending time with the family I can’t see how my husband and I have the luxury to have friends let alone with the opposite sex. It’s just not necessary.

I don't have a problem with it, unless the girl clearly has an interest in him more than friendship, as he wouldn't even notice, but I haven't gotten that feeling yet. He has lots of female friends and also lots of male friends. He did grow up in the country, though, and I've noticed that friendships are different there than if you're in the suburbs or city. (In my experience anyway.)

@momoftwo1, I’d say it’s absolutely ok as long as there is trust. You can trust your husband all you want. But if you don’t trust her it can make things rocky.

I would have to say it depends on the situation.. my SO has friends that are girls and we hangout all together and I know they aren’t interested in each other like that.. however, he use to have girls that were “friends” that he thought were good friends and I saw through their bull shiz and called them out and told him no to talking to them again.. the one girl would call him late at night when I was with him sleeping in bed and beg him to come over because “no one liked her” and she was “all alone” even tho she had a BF she couldn’t handle that we were in a happy relationship and I took most of my mans time.. so I put an end to that BS 😎