I'm 25yrs old, 25wks pregnant with my 4th child and I have my mind set on having my tubes burnt. I…

how old were you when you had your first?

No experience here.

However as per the people telling you were too young to have your kids, I think the difference is that you have a few already. I think it’d be different if you had one or two and wanted to finalize things.

I’m on my third and thought about doing it too, I just won’t because the permanency of it scares me even though I know 100% I don’t want anymore after this one.

You just need to decide for yourself if this is something you can live with down the road ☺️.

But then I think, there will always be grandchildren (obviously way later on lol)

I say as long as your 100% percent sure without a doubt then do it!

My sister in law had her 4th this year at 28 and just got her tubes burnt

I am most definitely certain i dont want any kids lol

I want to be able to enjoy my babies and travel. I also see how my mom struggled at 40yrs old pregnant and it was something that just made me decide that i would be done. I wanted to get them tied at 22yrs old with my 2nd, but my Dr wouldn't allow because of my age. Now that im on my 4th, I got the OK and just felt super relieved and kind of scared, but I know this is what I want🤗

@learningmom18 how did she feel after surgery? I heard it's like having a csection. I had a successful vbac on my last birth, so im trying to be prepared for the amount of pain I'll be in if I go through it.

@veemndz, she said she felt a little pain the day of, that night she woke up in a lot of pain, and two days after she said she felt like she was already recovered