Have any of you experienced neighbors thinking they’ll have instant and quick access to your baby as…
Have any of you experienced neighbors thinking they’ll have instant and quick access to your baby as soon as it’s born? I have a neighbor that lives 2 doors down (that I’m not even close to), who texted me tonight asking me a bunch of questions. She even asked “when can we expect him?” Lady, I don’t know! It’s up to the Good Lord and whenever the baby decides to come. I told her that too lol. Our husbands probably hang out a little more than we do, but I’ve only been over their house 2-3 times since we’ve moved here in 2016. Now granted, she doesn’t have any kids (and doesn’t want any), and is in her 40s, but girl, please think before you speak. I think folks who don’t have kids don’t know proper etiquette, but girl...I don’t know you lol! I’m making my own family get the tDap shot before they come by, so you DEFINITELY aren’t first on the list. And next, my real and actual friends are on the list. Now after my baby gets his shots at 2 months, we will welcome more people. But before then...it will be limited. But that’s just me...
Es Snen·
Ur totally right, most ppl with out kids don’t know..she seems really nice at heart but she probably doesn’t have much friends ?
Malaina Heka·
Мама сына-младенца
That seems a bit sketchy...😳 I would be careful if I were you...🙊😬
Angie Anny·
Мама подростка, беременна (39 нед.)
She's probably just being nice.
BlessedLadybug ·
@ebonybrown551, She has friends. Just nosey lol. The point is, I don’t feel comfortable with just anybody coming by. We’re not friends so I don’t want to feel forced to have you visit just because you live 2 doors down ☹️...
BlessedLadybug ·
@miaheka, Definitely sketch lol. Makes me feel uncomfortable 😣
BlessedLadybug ·
@zionandbellasmama, Yeah...she can be nice and wait too! ☝🏽
Es Snen·
@blessedladybug, I get too..ya, too forceful
Angie Anny·
Мама подростка, беременна (39 нед.)
What did you say when she asked
Malaina Heka·
Мама сына-младенца
@blessedladybug, I used to watch a lot of criminal minds to know there are some crazy women out there. Keep your guard up girl. If I were you I would cut all ties with her and her husband. Express your concern with your husband, I’m sure he’ll understand. Questions like that from a neighbor who has no kids, has interest in your soon to be baby that you barely even know is a complete RED FLAG. 🙅🏻♀️‼️
(I may sound dramatic, but I’m actually being really serious about this.)
BlessedLadybug ·
@zionandbellasmama, I just told her we are probably going to hold off on having a ton of visitors in the very beginning until the baby gets his shots, etc...
Angie Anny·
Мама подростка, беременна (39 нед.)
@blessedladybug thats what I'm telling folks too 😊
BlessedLadybug ·
@miaheka, I actually thought about that for a bit too lol. I’m not sure if she’d do anything, but what I DO know is that I don’t know her lol! She keeps giving hints about seeing the baby and being around but, I’m sorry, no. Not like that anyway. I know everybody loves babies, but you can stand back a bit. I’m not the kind of person to be letting everybody hold or babysit my baby. Plus I’m a private person. Plus I don’t feel like I have to explain my actions to anybody! Just no! How bout that lol 🤷🏽♀️.
Courtney·
Мама дочки-младенца
@miaheka, @blessedladybug, not to freak anyone out, but I actually saw this news thing where the downstairs neighbor performed a csection on her neighbor and kept the baby for several days until the police found her. It was insane!! I really don’t trust people with my kid 🤷🏼♀️
BlessedLadybug ·
@princessrose, Yeah that sounds crazy lol. I’ve actually heard of that happening more than once lol.
BlessedLadybug ·
@ebonybrown551, @zionandbellasmama, @miaheka, @princessrose, Update: I just checked my phone and she said via text “Yeah, we know, we understand, says the lady with the face mask on (sarcastically).”
Let me explain. She’s referring to me, because I used to walk around the grocery store with a face mask on during flu season during my first and second trimester because the flu was extra deadly and widespread this year. I work in healthcare so I know how easily things spread. Plus as a pregnant woman, getting the flu isn’t good because our immune systems are compromised. I had my flu shot but still wanted to protect my baby. If I wasn’t pregnant, I wouldn’t have worn it because our immune systems are stronger when we aren’t pregnant.
So needless to say (I’m bout to start cussing now 🤬), lady...you definitely won’t be coming over now! And I won’t be answering your texts. Smart a** comments get you absolutely no where.
Courtney·
Мама дочки-младенца
@blessedladybug, omg. That is so rude!!! So what. In Japan people wear masks all the time. You’re actually smart for doing so. 🙄🤦🏼♀️
BlessedLadybug ·
@princessrose, Yeah she’s definitely rude. And she’s said slick comments on other occasions about other things. I definitely don’t regret protecting my unborn child. I wore that mask all for him. Plus I had a miscarriage last year, so I was already on high alert and protecting my current baby at all costs.
Angie Anny·
Мама подростка, беременна (39 нед.)
@blessedladybug that's rude!! Yeah I would definitely be pissed!!
Josefa·
@miaheka, criminal minds is life.. too bad i finished it 😭
BlessedLadybug ·
@zionandbellasmama, Yeah I’m so done with her lol. Then she’ll probably have her husband to call my husband so she can still come over. But regardless, the communication between she and I will definitely be very minimal to non existent from now on☝🏽. I’m leaning more towards non existent lol...
Malaina Heka·
Мама сына-младенца
@blessedladybug, Yes, girl! You know what your doing! That gives me some relief for you. I wouldn’t even let her see your baby ever if I were you. Wouldn’t wanna trigger her inner self. 😮😩 OK. I’m playing, but still, take as many precautions as you possibly can. Yes, everyone loves babies... they don’t need to all of a sudden be all in your business during your pregnancy and or just because you’re about to have a baby... 😣
Malaina Heka·
Мама сына-младенца
@princessrose, I SAW THAT TOO!!!
Malaina Heka·
Мама сына-младенца
@blessedladybug, she’s awful. I would never allow her around your baby. I’m a very private person as well. I had a hard time accepting my SO’s own family for a while because I was on my own for a while before even meeting him.
Malaina Heka·
Мама сына-младенца
@josefa, GIRL, rewatch it! I’ve re-watched it SO many times and it’s still just as good as the first! 😩
BlessedLadybug ·
@miaheka, I put her number in the spam folder on my phone before I went to bed last night 😂
Malaina Heka·
Мама сына-младенца
@blessedladybug,lol that’s a great start!!!! 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼😂😂😂