In your opinion ladies do you feel it’s better to talk to your SO about your problems/feeling or let…

It depends on the issue. Some things are small potatoes and might be YOUR issue and not theirs. It really just depends.

@spookylyn, I feel like every-time I tell him what’s wrong or how I feel he takes it as I am fighting. Like today I told him I need more help and he took it as he’s a shitty father and husband because of it. So now it’s a huge fight. And now i just think maybe I shouldn’t tell him anything and let everything go. 😞

@squishymommy1, thank you! that helps a lot😊 it’s so true

@spookylyn, I did I’ve been asking him to do things for me and the kids and it doesn’t get done until I do it or he sees me doing and gets up to do it. That’s not how it should be. I am still trying to recover for my c section they hit a nerve so I am limited to doing a lot of things. I ask for little thing like start a load of towels he doesn’t do it for hours but as soon as he sees me picking up the basket he flips and says I need to relax and let him do it. What’s the point if asking if I have to do it anyways. I just feel like I’ll never get help. I have thought about counseling but he always says why go there when we can fix it on our own. Obviously we can’t..

@spookylyn, thank you so much! Your 100% right. Once it’s broken it’s broken and I don’t think we have much time left before it’s all the way broken.