@haslberry agreed, my boyfriend is a stay at home dad and I'm the provider but that does not mean he's less of a man or father. It works for us. And my children love their dad.

@mommyofavaka nahh if you are having a child with someone, you should know the type of person your having a child with. Even if they are a good person at the end of the day there's always a possibility you will have to support your children finacially alone.

I'd go with the second choice. You could turn that into him being a stay at home parent while you work which has value in its own right. The benefits of having two loving parents outweighs the money aspect as well, and life is better for everyone when there's a good coparenting relationship.

@taylorc I agree

The reason why I asked is cause I seen stah mothers who think it's ok longest the man is making the money for the father to not be include in the parenting (taking care of there baby)...I look at it as ...U rather father to pay expense but not want to bond with there kid... I may be wrong but it's just an opinion.@momme @britt. @newlyironman @roses702 @sarah.s

Second, it's a touchy subject but I don't believe in child support and money isn't a problem. As long as you spend time with your child and bond I'm good.

Neither. It's 50/50

Second

For the child's sake, 2nd

Neither. But if I must choose, I'd take the 2nd option. Only because it's most beneficial for the child. That relationship is more important than money.