Hi momma's I need some tips or advice my daughter has been acting up alot lately since we moved back to California (it's a long story as to what happened) but she hasn't been listening to either me or her dad but she will listen to other people and she has just done this since we moved back idk if she is doing it more now that she has both of her parents and she thinks she can get away with it or what but I'm asking what should I do? I've tried literally everything. I've told her that it's not ok to hit or bite and not to throw food and I smack her hand lightly and say "no" when she is doing something she isn't supposed to be doing but she still doesn't listen. Feels like she is already in her terrible twos at one years old....
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@shaebaby3, not only that but the way she comes at people is rude. I don’t agree with hitting a kid or baby but also I’m not here to judge other mothers. @its.a.bird, watch your tone and the way you interact with others. Your child is learning from you. You may not hit him but from the looks of it you sound condescending and rude as fuck lol.
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I just wanted to say that we have a group ran by @yayacarrington, where we discuss tips on peaceful parenting. It helps us all learn various tactics for discipline and guiding our children. Maybe you’d like to join and see if any of the ideas or opinions on there are helpful to you.
@shaebaby3, not only that but the way she comes at people is rude. I don’t agree with hitting a kid or baby but also I’m not here to judge other mothers. @its.a.bird, watch your tone and the way you interact with others. Your child is learning from you. You may not hit him but from the looks of it you sound condescending and rude as fuck lol.
@shaebaby3 trust me I know! We all loose it sometimes but I still can't fantom how that momma could call another momma trash and they children Satan. Like do you hear yourself. That's so hypicrocal. I've never once seen a momma on here apologize after going wayyyy to far.
@shaebaby3 yeah I read the comments. Little does @its.a.bird know but children pick up energy and that attitude is going to shape that child. Child are highly intelligent and I'm sure they won't remember a pop on the hand for being mischievous. To me a pop should be last resort, LIKE we all agree! But they will remember that mouth of momma's. They absorb everything adults do and say. Growing up and speaking like that as adults is no good. This is a lesson for all of us! All mom's have things to work on , whether it's discipline, or being a great role model. Overall this was a discusting post to re-read. @celiesmommy01 I don't know you personally but I think your a great mother, keep strong, stay firm and at the end of the day love on your baby and tell her you love her!
@its.a.bird bitch have told my daughter's pediatrician and guess what she TOLD ME TO! So unless you have a whole team of doctors behind you and all of your "research" on hand I don't want to hear shit from you. You're sitting here calling my daughter a Satan but guess what bitch every child is different. Bet you didn't know that ftm. Sure I'm one to but I have DONE MY RESEARCH. ESPECIALLY AFTER MORE THAN ONE PERSON TOLD ME TO DO IT. You're just one of those mom's that teach your child how it's ok to treat other mom's like their no one. And guess what lil hunny it ain't working on me. So unless your ass is apologizing I do not want to hear some rude hateful ass shit. I don't beat my child. That IS wrong. BUT disciplining is way different than beating. And you're being hypocritical because you said you do the same shit but not hit. You just teach them bashing and being disrespectful without consequences is ok. And it isn't. So just stfu and get the fuck on with your supposed great mommy accomplishments. No one needs the constant bashing and everyone else is telling you it isn't right either. So again until u have your proof and a whole team of doctors and researchers behind you you can just stfu about your advice. My kid, MY WAY OF DISCIPLINING!!! PERIOD, END OF STORY!!!
@shaebaby3 yep I'm a rebel and I always find myself defending myself. But never has anyone been so damn disrespectful. I read all the comments and I already knew where it was going. SMH. Like WOW
@its.a.bird what your saying is no better than what she saying. Obviously your showing your true colors in person or online. look i understand your upset but if this is how your handling confrontation than you need a better approach. It's called having tolerance. Plus we all mom's so how are we any better than the next. Word of advice don't every speak bad of another mother's child. Karma is a bigger bitch.
@its.a.bird Maybe you should be the one getting laid🤦😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
@shaebaby3 I felt horrible reading her comments . Like really your better than me momma. How can someone get you that upset to call a baby names like Satan etc. Leave the damn babies out of it. That anger and energy clearly shows that there is hostility and THAT is worst than any pop on the hand.
Bad energy yo!
@its.a.bird Omg just gtf off my post already. I don't fucking hit her it's called disaplining!!!!!🤦🖕
@shaebaby3 comes on momma let's chill out . This covo is too much. Leave the babies out of it.
@its.a.bird heyyy honestly I'm a bitch , but this comment is very mean and it's not nice to put a mother's children in your mouth. I won't sit here and troll. I think you need to chill out.
@its.a.bird Noted especially not advice from someone like you
@shaebaby3 Took the words right out of my mouth!!
@its.a.bird They aren't going to learn if you don't disapline them they will turn out being spoiled and think that it's ok to hit people I smack her GENTLELY so she knows that it's not ok and she does know.
@its.a.bird Lmao do some research I have honey and it says on the website that you can disapline your kids to listen. I know lots of mom's that did this and their kids turned out just fine.
@its.a.bird I wouldn't call it hitting because she doesn't cry when I do it she looks at me like she KNOWS she did something wrong. And m daughter does mean to hit because once she hits you she starts laughing.
@shaebaby3 Thank you you understand what I'm saying!!@its.a.bird I don't full on hit her to were she screams she just gives me a look like she did something wrong my baby girl is smart.
@its.a.bird I know she is that's why I'm asking what else to do other than smacking her hand because I'm starting to see that's not the answer and that she is going to keep doing it if I do it.
@ek620 Well I didn't know that was typical behavior at this age never had a baby before and her doctor told me to slowly start disciplining her.
@its.a.bird It was kinda hard when I was her room mate at the time but we are no longer talking so that won't be a problem. I'm not asking to be judged I'm asking what to do you don't need to be rude alright people make mistakes I'm a first time mom so I'm learning.
You’re describing typical behavior for this age. @its.a.bird is spot on with her advice.
@its.a.bird Yeah it does make sense I only did it because that's what so many people have told me to do to get her to listen that's why I made this post on what to do.
@its.a.bird Okay I do that as well and she still doesn't listen like I just said she has been hitting long before I smacked her hand my friend taught her how to hit
And I am very stern with her and she still doesn't listen.
She was already hitting long before I smacked her hand.
@its.a.bird Idk maybe because people told me that's the only way she is going to learn? It's not like I full on smack her it's light enough to let her know that it's not ok
@its.a.bird heyyy honestly I'm a bitch , but this comment is very mean and it's not nice to put a mother's children in your mouth. I won't sit here and troll. I think you need to chill out.