How to Handle Insecurity in a Relationship?
So I’ve become insecure and anytime a girl comments on my SO social media I would ask him about it and we would end up arguing about it
I’ve accused him before but he’s like I’m not doing anything even though when we were on a break he was talking to other girls
Which some he said were “just friends”
I’ve spoken to his mom and she says I need to tell him what to do but I’m not trying to be that GF who makes you stop talking to people
I’m just so stuck
But it’s not like I just came out of nowhere acting like this he makes me feel like this and anytime I try to tell him that he just flips it on me
He’s made me cry because of this I just need some advice
Caylin·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
LEAVEEEEE. Say boy BYE. You don’t need that.
Caylin·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
Run far away before he “manipulates” you even more
Mercedes Stoddard·
In that situation his mom is right, in a relationship compromises have to be made and he should not be fighting it so hard especially when he can tell how much it upsets you. Both me and my SO have had to stop talking to some people because of the past and how those relationships, whether friendships or more were and how they affected BOTH of us now. It isn't just his life and how it is to him, it's your life together and he needs to know he can't be thinking just for himself and what he thinks or believes.
Amy·
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@caylintay, see I can’t right now because we live together but I’ve thought about it but I wouldn’t have anywhere to go at the moment unless I get my own place I’m kind of between a rock and a hard place
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Yeah he needs to not have bitches commenting on his social media. Anything that bothers you, should bother him.
Caylin·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
@unicorn_mama, YES
Caylin·
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (28 нед.)
@alopezm1414, there’s always a way girl. Things get scary at times but we’ve all been there.
Delete Please. ·
Do you want to continue your relationship with this man and work things out? Because if not the simple answer is just to leave. However if you want to work things out with him I say y'all need to sit down and have a long talk. You say you don't want to be that "girlfriend" but with relationships comes compromise so if something is making you feel insecure in your relationship he needs to stop doing whatever he's doing that is causing that. It's not about being that "girlfriend" it's about getting the respect that you deserve especially since you're carrying his child.
linda ·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (6 нед.)
Do the females that comment tend to comment things that are suggestive or sexual in nature, Indicates that there’s something more going on or does it seem harmless but just makes you feel insecure? There’s things to consider . Maybe this isnt about him and maybe its about you just needing to focus on building a loving relationship with yourself so that it doesn’t bother you as much. all women feel insecure at times but it’s because we self sabotage ourselves. if he’s gonna cheat , he gonna cheat but if he does and you find out about it then thats when you decide to leave or work it out there’s no need in arguing over something you are guessing about.
Kimberly Ohnstad ·
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I'm a huge minority but I honestly feel like you are over reacting, half the world's population is female. I'd try to analyze why you all of a sudden feel so insecure and then figure out a solution to it... because it likely isn't the girls