I know I shouldn’t let things like this get to me, but I can’t sleep and it’s winding me up more &…
I know I shouldn’t let things like this get to me, but I can’t sleep and it’s winding me up more & haven’t told no one... While I was waiting for my friends to pick me up there were two guys at the bus stop one said to his mate “look at that girl mate she’s massive” (meaning me) & laughed 😥... I’m insecure about my weight because I’ve been told I’m fat most of my life by men & it’s honestly made me feel like crap about myself 😭... Just don’t know why men think it’s ok to target my weight when I actually don’t think I’m that bad... but I must be if they keep saying it!
Natasha·
Ignore them (easier said than done) you're 30 wks pregnant and absolutely beautiful. Wish I had more advice to make you feel better! Xxx
Emma Teresa·
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@pearce5443, aww It’s ok hun 💗💗 I’ll be okay, it just really hurts when people are so horrible sometimes don’t know how they have the balls to be nasty I could never make anyone feel like that .. just a knock of the old confidence with all the pregnancy symptoms and emotions going on lol I’ll be ok just good to let it off my chest after bubbling about it all day 🙄🤦🏻♀️ xxx
Natasha·
@em93bbourn unfortunately people are vile and don't take people's feelings into consideration. I can almost guarantee that after they made the comment they didn't give it a second thought. I would take great pleasure in throat punching people like that! I know what you mean though. I work in a shop and I have a customer that comes in and says "alright fatty" I know it's a joke and I know it's because I'm pregnant but it doesn't mean it doesn't make me self conscious. As I've struggled with weight issues before as well. I 100% understand how you are feeling xxc
Katelynn Johnson·
Hunni, your 30 weeks pregnant..... I dont think they meant you where fat.... They probably ment your bump chick, and tbf that's kind of a good think. Nice healthy little baby growing very strong in there. 😘
Surraya Rowe·
Мама сына (6 лет)
That’s awful 😡 some blokes are just ****s!!! You’re 30 weeks pregnant! Plus who give a shit what random dick head blokes think!xx
Emma Teresa·
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@surraya1983, yeah it’s so true I shouldn’t let it bother me they really are just pathetic but it hurts I feel down today I don’t often care I have quite a thick skin but it’s really got to me 🙄... f****g people! lol I’ll be alright just have a moment & move on lol xx
Surraya Rowe·
Мама сына (6 лет)
@em93bbourn, I’m a bit overweight too, bmi is 32 🙁 so yeah I understand it would hurt. I hope you feel better soon.xx
Emma Teresa·
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@surraya1983, thank you sorry for moaning being negative xx
Emma Teresa·
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@claytonsmammy, that’s true it’s all for my little babba 💗☺️ xx
Emma Teresa·
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@pearce5443, yeah that’s the thing that they forget it 🙄 but sticks with me for ages... I don’t think they realise how it can effect someone... I will get over it and wonder why I was ever moaning seems silly lol if I wasn’t feeling so shitty I’d have probably fired back to be fair 🤣🤣 xxx
Natasha·
@em93bbourn I get it babe. Hope you feel better soon....You're beautiful, don't let anyone tell you otherwise xxx