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Sara Bonita Estrada
I’ve been so emotional today... my future has become uncertain and not because of me becoming pregnant again it has to do with my relationship with my husband. We don’t communicate like I think we should he never wants to talk to me and I can never tell him how I’m feeling because he will either say he doesn’t care or he just doesn’t listen. I know he has some stuff going on and I try to be there for him but he has become so mean to the point that I’m almost never happy. And seriously thinking about leaving. It has only gotten worse and I fear it will never get better. Today is our 17 year anniversary and it just doesn’t feel right. I shouldn’t feel so sad 😞 but I do and I really don’t know how to make it better anymore. I love him and I want to be with him but I just don’t know and I think the not knowing is what is really making me so sad. Sorry for the long post I just need to get this out and thank you if you read it.
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It may sound corny, but pray.
Pray every night that your heart is opened to him.
I know it doesn’t seem like it should be you doing the work, but work on what YOU can change.
You can change how you react to his actions.
Do things that help make you feel special. Get your hair done, your nails, do your makeup for the day.
Focus on your other kiddos. I say other cuz we all know a hubs is just a big kid.
Work on what you can change most. Yourself. Once you’re happy, it’ll be contagious. And if your husband doesn’t see any change, or doesn’t care... you’ll be too happy and independent to want to hold onto someone that is so determined to bring your mood down. Hope everything gets better for you luv, if you need any advice just message me.
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@linacorral1562, thank you I hope so to I’m in the process of seeing a therapist so hopefully that helps as well. Maybe I can even get him to go too.
🙏🙏🙏After 17 yrs alot changes. My marriage has been thru hell n back. Keep Faith in your marriage. I hope it all turns around for the best for you and your husband.
@christineg, thank you I will do that
It may sound corny, but pray.
Pray every night that your heart is opened to him.
I know it doesn’t seem like it should be you doing the work, but work on what YOU can change.
You can change how you react to his actions.
Do things that help make you feel special. Get your hair done, your nails, do your makeup for the day.
Focus on your other kiddos. I say other cuz we all know a hubs is just a big kid.
Work on what you can change most. Yourself. Once you’re happy, it’ll be contagious. And if your husband doesn’t see any change, or doesn’t care... you’ll be too happy and independent to want to hold onto someone that is so determined to bring your mood down. Hope everything gets better for you luv, if you need any advice just message me.
I'm sorry you are going through this. I know it's hard but this will pass. Pray for strength, pray for healing for both of you and speak over your marriage.
@jadata05, thank you so much. I hope so too
@kambam, thank you that makes sense
So sorry 😕 relationships are hard and it takes a lot to keep them strong. You may want him but maybe his need isn't as strong as yours? Sometimes people need to lose to remember what they had. Best wishes 💌
@momma_dee, thank you I will keep trying I really want it to work out.
Im sorry you’re going through this. I know how you feel.. I hope and pray that line of communication is opened and the passion is ignited back into both of you for each other 🔥♥️ that you guys get through this and be filled with joy and in love again. Continue fighting, not only for yourself but for your husband too.