Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
So I don’t think I will keep this pregnancy and I don’t know what I’m supposed to do
I know this sounds sooo fkedup but sometimes i wanna get into a bad accident so my husband sees exactly all the things i do ... and how wrong he is by saying i don’t do enough ( not in those words but the jist of it ) anyway .... i think this all the time . Maybe then he will think differently .
so my bd is in jail for violating his probation and I just had the craziest thought to maybe go visit him bc I haven’t seen him in a while and I don’t think he knows that I know that he’s in there and also he doesn’t even have a court date set so i’m not sure exactly how long he’s gonna be locked up. another thing is that throughout my pregnancy he hasn’t really been around or asked to help or been to any appts. am I crazy for considering going to visit him? I doubt I will but I also don’t want him to feel alone in there bc of course I do still care about him. idk I just wanna make sure he’s doing okay, you know?
Sara Bonita Estrada·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@linacorral1562, thank you I hope so to I’m in the process of seeing a therapist so hopefully that helps as well. Maybe I can even get him to go too.
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🙏🙏🙏After 17 yrs alot changes. My marriage has been thru hell n back. Keep Faith in your marriage. I hope it all turns around for the best for you and your husband.
Sara Bonita Estrada·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@christineg, thank you I will do that
Christine Gonzalez·
Мама двоих (младенец), ждёт третьего
It may sound corny, but pray.
Pray every night that your heart is opened to him.
I know it doesn’t seem like it should be you doing the work, but work on what YOU can change.
You can change how you react to his actions.
Do things that help make you feel special. Get your hair done, your nails, do your makeup for the day.
Focus on your other kiddos. I say other cuz we all know a hubs is just a big kid.
Work on what you can change most. Yourself. Once you’re happy, it’ll be contagious. And if your husband doesn’t see any change, or doesn’t care... you’ll be too happy and independent to want to hold onto someone that is so determined to bring your mood down. Hope everything gets better for you luv, if you need any advice just message me.
Melissa ·
Мама сына (3 года), беременна (15 нед.)
I'm sorry you are going through this. I know it's hard but this will pass. Pray for strength, pray for healing for both of you and speak over your marriage.
Sara Bonita Estrada·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@jadata05, thank you so much. I hope so too
Sara Bonita Estrada·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@kambam, thank you that makes sense
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
So sorry 😕 relationships are hard and it takes a lot to keep them strong. You may want him but maybe his need isn't as strong as yours? Sometimes people need to lose to remember what they had. Best wishes 💌
Sara Bonita Estrada·
Мама четверых детей, беременна
@momma_dee, thank you I will keep trying I really want it to work out.
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Im sorry you’re going through this. I know how you feel.. I hope and pray that line of communication is opened and the passion is ignited back into both of you for each other 🔥♥️ that you guys get through this and be filled with joy and in love again. Continue fighting, not only for yourself but for your husband too.