Haven’t been on in some time but just need to get things off my chest; I was told by a counselor in college that it would be hard to “work full time & be a full time student” he also said that after my first semester it was pick or choose because it’s can be impossible for me to focus on both - he doesn’t know I have a daughter.
Ive been debating what he told me & im not sure what to do because if it’s so “hard” to be both imagine being a FT worker, student, & MOM?! I would love to accomplish this without giving up on one or the other but I’m indecisive & don’t know what else to think. I became a FT employee working 9-5 & leaving my daughter home 5 days out of the week w. My mom, getting home just to do my daily activities with Soriah but now to actually go from work, to school and being unsure of when I will be able to spend time with my her is what’s killing me. She motivates me to do better & get things done but this is just something that is making me confused.