It’s funny idk why I’m just like how can someone talk trash about me but want me to go out my way to…
It’s funny idk why I’m just like how can someone talk trash about me but want me to go out my way to say hi to them first. Last week as my sister wanted to say I’m to blame for my husband and hers always fighting. Considering hers was the one saying he wanted to fight mine so my husband confronted him twice about it. Well yesterday my youngest sister was like well Kat never says hi to her. Like I am not going to say hi to someone who wants to blame me for something out of my hands especially last time I was outside the yard when it happened. Once I said that my youngest sister was like oh.. I didn’t know that. But ok so I respond to her if she talks to me but I’m not going to kiss up to her like everyone else is. Especially when a week ago she wanted to talk all this extra trash. And if they wanted me to talk it out with her I’ll be honest with her she lost all my respect in January when she tried to barge into my room straight up said she didn’t care if my daughter was in the room. The week later when she started attacking my husband and I told her somethings she got mad and stepped up to me with my son who was 4 months in my hands cause I was breast feeding. That my mom had to get in front of her. Yeah I choose to let my kids know her. Cause I live with my parents but other than that I don’t respect her like I did last year.
Eryka·
You should let her know how you feel
katarina·
@eryka616, I want to but it’s really everyone sees my husband as a bad guy. And in reality she just wants me to bow down to her like everyone else. On top of everything she bought my fridge that was still brand new uses for 11 months for supposed to be 400 but she stopped paying me after everything so it’s like 150 she decided she didn’t have to pay cause of the fighting I’m over it. I know. Their preferred method would for me to leave him. Like my mom was trying to make him this evil guy and I’m like no he’s not that bad and she’s like well I’m learning stuff and I’m like what stuff and she didn’t want to tell me but I can’t move out cause he won’t change his visitation or anything so I’m literally stuck. And his other option is his family in a smaller room than what we have but it would
Eryka·
@km416, that’s a shitty situation, but I think if you talk to your sister things may get better. She seems to be in control of everything so it’s the only option.
katarina·
@eryka616, yeah it is and they want to try to get us to talk but I let a lot slide with her. She’s a sour person now. I’m no saint but I don’t want her to think things she said and done are ok and I’ll let it keep going on either.