Cassandra
mommys4angels
Cassandra·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

Have you ever felt so alone even with a house full of people or even with your husband right next to you. I don't understand my husband's brother is over with his girlfriend and kids and he is talking to them no problem but when it's just us and our kids he's on his phone all the time. We don't talk anymore like we use to. I think he's losing interest in me. I don't feel like he loves me anymore.

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mommys4angels
Cassandra·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@anna20201 no

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anna20201

@mommys4angels, have y’all tried counseling?

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mommys4angels
Cassandra·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@anna20201 I no it is.

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anna20201

@mommys4angels, then it’s time to re-evaluate your relationship.

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mommys4angels
Cassandra·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@anna20201 he won't make an effort

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Cassandra·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@floralfairy very true. I just don't know how to start over

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anna20201

@mommys4angels, put the children to bed at a decent time and try to spend atleast 2 hours together. It’s doable but you both have to put in the effort.

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@mommys4angels, maybe it's time to move on. I know you have history but you can't change the way he is. If he's not putting in his 50% then your either going to over compensate and pick up his slack or give up and feel empty.... either way, it's not a relationship.

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mommys4angels
Cassandra·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@anna20201 that will never happen. I have no family and his family won't either

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anna20201

Is there anyway y’all can do to have more one on one time? Maybe have an adult game night with board games and pizza or watch a movie without any interruptions from kids. Make atleast 2-3 nights a week a priority of spending time together.

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mommys4angels
Cassandra·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@qwiona I no

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qwiona
Qwiona White·Мама дочки (8 лет)

@mommys4angels I feel like I'm petty so if you ignore me and don't want to have an adult conversation then I'm gonna turn my attention elsewhere also. Either that'll make him pay attention or it won't bother him which means he doesn't deserve your company at all

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mommys4angels
Cassandra·Многодетная мама (7 детей)

@anna20201 I have tryed many Times to talk to him about this and all I get out of him is oh here comes all your feelings. You know I'm not about this things

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anna20201

This is usual seeing from past posts. Have you talked to him about it?

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seanvna
Jenny Hyland·Мама двоих (7 лет, 25 лет)

Girlie mine does the same thing. 😩

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