Am I doing the right thing, by having this baby for me and choosing it over the person who “…
Am I doing the right thing, by having this baby for me and choosing it over the person who “ apparently loved me” who left me... because I choose the baby over him. Idk I’m just feeling super alone in all of this and am feeling like I made the wrong move because I couldn’t abort, I love my little girl lots, but he keeps telling me to give her up for him. But I don’t even want todo that he just makes me feel like I’m being selfish
Ghost·
If he loved you he would still be with you no matter what ., he created this human being with you you didn’t do this to yourself . How can you be selfish by choosing to give life rather then abort ? If he can’t see that then he is not the one for you
Emma W·
В ожидании первенца
@carmelosmommy, he tells me I can’t do this on my own and more makes me feel useless and makes me fee like this is all my family. And unless I give it up for adoption he doesn’t want to be together. But then he yelled at me when I didn’t take the needle at the start because I had a bit of spotting which could affect me having kids in the future. But I didn’t take it and he snapped on me and was saying how he wants kids in the future with me and too take the needle. Idk he’s all over the place makes me feel alone super alone and I hate it
Ghost·
@emma9990, there are loads of help out there for single moms (if that’s what it comes to) but don’t let him make your decision for you ., if your child is what you want then keep your child ., he sounds like a controlling man and you don’t need that ., you need someone that will agree with you & be there for you , not someone constantly telling you to get rid of it .,
fabi·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
If he tells you to choose between him or your baby he is going to leave anyway.. thats not love.. there is lots of ressources for single mother abd help/support groups too so you are never alone... i did give up on a baby for a man many years ago and i still regret it to this day because i did it to be with him and he still left me at the end.. so if you want this baby go for it sweety.. dont be scared. You can do this. And dont f9rget that you are never alone
Lisa·
Мама троих детей
I agree with everyone who posted thus far. Keep your child
Hannah Perry·
Мама дочки-младенца
Anyone who ask me to choose between them and someone else has already made the choice for me