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Roxy

Baby cries with daddy most of the time. He even seems to prefer my mother in law, who he sees every…

Baby cries with daddy most of the time. He even seems to prefer my mother in law, who he sees every day too (hubby works from home). I thought it would pass, but my son is almost 3 months and it's still the same. My husband is very affectionate and patient with him, so I don't understand why baby feels that way Anyone in the same situation?

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hotmessexpress

Just Me

Мама четверых детей

My children were never like that but i think if daddy is sure to have as much bonding time with baby as possible that it will change. I've noticed that children are usually closer to the person/people that take care of their basic needs like feedings, diaper changes, putting them to bed, play, responding to their cries, etc. Maybe try having daddy do these things more frequently. It takes time though. Good luck.

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emily526

Emily Mallegni

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (34 нед.)

I agree with @lifeisgood2me I believe children are closer to whoever caters more to their basic needs. My daughter is a total daddy's girl because he is who takes care of her the most feeding, playing, diaper changes, bedtime, etc. She doesn't cry with me at all, but she definitely has a different relationship with me than with her dad.

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ulyssesmom

Roxy

@emily526 @lifeisgood2me Thank you ladies! He plays with him every day but he certainly doesn't change diapers or bathe him. We'll try that!

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erikak

ErikaK

My husband did more skin-to-skin with baby than I did (I think) in the first few weeks and baby just adores him. Hubby also changes diapers a lot and thats when baby loves to make eye contact and becomes playful.

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king_julienne

Julienne 😜👑

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (5 нед.)

It was this way for me too for about 5-6 mos... Then all of a sudden she wanted her dad more and more and I could see the bond forming... She's still soo small, it's normal for her to take some time to warm up.. It's a mom thing... No worries. 😊🤗

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lexiem3

Alexus T.

Мама двоих (младенец)

Opposite. Is fine with most people, can can't stand MIL. Probably because she's always yelling and giving me anxiety, but that's just my theory lol

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