I have got to say the other day I spent with my aunt we went out to eat then to a crystal shop and while taking to her she confirmed a lot of things about my childhood that I didn't know if people saw from the outside and helped me realize I'm not crazy my mom was over controlling and always doing things and answering questions for me. And it was so obvious that I was struggling to find myself. My dad just drank all the time and they could never agree on how to parent me and my brother. So now here I am 27 years old with two kids struggling to learn things I should have been doing myself years ago bcuz I didnt know I even had to or it was always done for me. I know at this point I can't keep blaming her I just have to learn as I go and move on but it's nice to know it's not all me.