I'm so over and done with my in-laws they got my sister-in-law to try to message my husband to see…

I'm so over and done with my in-laws they got my sister-in-law to try to message my husband to see if she could pick up are oldest and take her back with her. I have told my in-laws many times to come down here to see how she does with them overnight in a hotel but they won't do that my daughter still has a habit even when she's with my mom that she will cry and ask for me to pick her up may it be at midnight or the next day early in the morning. My in-laws are two hours away my husband finally just gave up and told me that I just let them and that they have to bring her back and pick her up and we already know that she will want to come back and how she act and they wont be able to handle her like they think they will. So hopefully they will finally understand why we keep telling them come down here and spend time with her and why we say no.