I was so anxious about labor and did a whole bunch of research and preparation. I knew what I wanted and made a plan and guess what? It didn't go how I wanted it to 😥 but I got a healthy baby in the end which is what we wanted and I had to learn to let go of my expectations. Yes, it's going to hurt. Yes it will be one of the hardest things you do in your life. But it is only a moment of pain for a lifetime of happiness.