My boyfriend snuck and turned on my find my friends on my iPhone so he can know where I am at all…

I secretly did that to my bfs phone 😂

^Everyone is entitled to their own I guess.... Cute to me lol

What if you got hurt and couldn't answer? At least he would know your general location! Its more reasons than being crazy and insecure 🙄🙄

Sounds controlling

@redheaded_inkednurse I guess but maybe it wasn't that serious like he probably just picked her phone up and did it.

but yeah the word "snuck" I guess I can see y'all's point

I see their point if he had bad intentions but if not still cute to me girl lol . Don't think too deep 😅

It’d be different if she didn’t put the word snuck.

If he would have been like “hey turn on your location so I can check on you and make sure your safe” itd be different IMO

He’s is far from possessive or anything like that he had been asking me to turn it on but I kept forgetting so he just took matters into his own hands lol and it’s mainly bc he looses his phone a bunch and like today my phone went out of service and I wasn’t at the house he didn’t know where I was so he just checked his phone and I was at Walmart getting snacks lol I use it to see how far he is away from coming home from work etc we have a very trusting relationship. Also his ex wife cheated on him a BUNCH! He said it also gives him comfort in a way which I totally get I’d rather do that then have an insecure man breathing down my back asking where I am and what I’m doing 24-7 and telling me to prove it yeah my ex was scary like that.

Y’all are right snuck was a poor choice in words!

Haha ok that sounds much better!! Thanks for the clarification! ☺️

@skymomof4, the ones who are like that’s a red flag have probably have been through some rough s*** I bet.

@jellybeans33, haha I love you ladies always looking out for me and my well being😭😍

@skymomof4, lol she even agreed it was a poor word choice. It’s great that he’s worried about her now that she cleared it up. But at first it sounded controlling. Like he had to know her every step.

Shiiiittt, my boyfriend and I have an app called “Life360” it tells him when I’ve left my house, arrived to the next destination. How fast I was going. And if he goes on the app, it’ll tell him how long I was at a place” and vice versa. We just found it one day while looking on our play store when we first got these phones a few months ago. I had no issue doing it. Watch the news ? There’s ALWAYS crashes, deaths, or someone being rushed to the hospital. If I’m driving and have no clue where I’m at, get stuck in a crash, and I can’t tell him my location.. He can find me by checking our app, and it’ll give him directions to my location, as if it were google maps. I don’t have any issues with him knowing my every move. I look at it for emergency purposes only. We both drive with our one year old son.. And I think it’s “cute” how she worded hers. Just because he “snuck” doesn’t mean anything bad. Or that he’s controlling.

Just my opinion tho.

@for_the_love_of_boys, we have that app too. i never even open it. i would only check his location if he was missing or something. it’s actually safe to know where your SO or even your kids are.

i think if people have a problem with apps like this. it’s bc they aren’t married or their husband/bf don’t want them to know where they are. 😂 if you have a healthy relationship... there’s literally nothing to worry about and it’s not a big deal.

@ashleyrod, the ones who aren’t okay with this, are ones who should probably be single. Especially from my experiences & witnessing some issues with others. You’re totally right. I have NO issue having this app. My SO never checks his, and I don’t check mine. The only time I ever used it, was because I was lost, took the wrong way one day, and he was like “babe, just go on our app and google map to me” like duh 🤦🏼‍♀️😂 Neither of us have any issues with it, just as neither of us are sneaking around on the other either 😋

Psh, if my boyfriend and I didn’t already share a phone you better believe location would be turned on both our phones 🤣 that might mean we have trust issues but I don’t think it’s a sign of abuse... it’s just a way to make the other one feel secure.

My fiancé and I both have them turned on so we know where each other is. Definitely not crazy and a sign of abuse.

We use the Life360 app to locate e achother. That way I don't have to bug him about where u at, I can see where he's at. He works kinda far away and I'm always scared about him getting in an accident and me not knowing where he is blah blah I also have it on my daughter's phone.