Ugg! Why dose it seem like since i got pregnant (planned and tried for over 2 years) That my husband…

Girl same ever since I got pregnant this time also planned my husband mean to me always talking shit calling me names I’m fed up at this point

Sorry your going through that! Should talk to your husband and express your feelings about this. It’s really important to keep a calm and happy household during this special time of your life. Try to get him involved in the process more by having him read to the belly every night. Just remind him it’s stressful for you and that’s not healthy for a new mama who needs all the energy to grow a little one.

He might just need some space. Guys tend to get stressed and start acting out instead of talking it out kindly. He may just need a guy vacation or just a guy day to not think about everything he feels is on his shoulders.

My guy usually needs space to think things out till he find his own logical solution. Till then he acts distant and gives me the cold shoulder and I’ll be like “ hello ! I’m here to help ! “. But guys tend to not want to show they are struggling or needing help.

He could feel like he’s caged up and needs to do something freeing. We can all feel overwhelmed and act out irrationally. I know I do :/

He shouldn’t be taking it out on you though. You don’t deserve it.

@melissaortega1995 awwwww. Im so sorry.. 😭😭💔💔 that's so sad..

I completely understand. Im fed up too. He don't call me names but he yells at me at makes me feel awful.

I've tried to calmly talk to him about it but he just blames me.. Or denys it.. 💔💔💔😢😭

Do you think he would do couples counseling?

Thank u and yeah I get called a bitch hoe slut whore like who calls there baby mama that matter a fact there wife that period pregnant or not I’m done at this point i break my back around the house for him and our daughter and still cleaning and being the only one to ever do anything around the house being 9 months pregnant and he uses his job and wanting to be on his phone twenty four seven as a excuse to never wanna help to me it’s just lazy

Hope this help love.

@trich006 great idea! I love this! Yes ill definitely be talking to him. @deadlylove absolutely this is great advice! Ill definitely see what i can do for him to become more relaxed! I'd love for him to have a guy vacation! Yes i do to act out irrationally sometimes also. :/ i agree he definitely should not be. ;(@penelope127 no i don't, i got him to go to regular councling with my for my appointment (bipolar and such) but he said he felt like she was trying to council him instead of me. (That was the point of him going)@melissaortega1995 oh no mama! Thats insane! Im definitely praying for you! Thats definitely got to be rough. Im definitely always here if you wanna talk/vent!@lcost oh no mama thats absolutely heart breaking! Im terribly sorry. Im also here for you to reach out to or talk to or vent!

@soon-to-mother-of-3 absolutely love this! Thank you so much!