Any Mommas have rainbow babies? I had a miscarriage in January. My husband has been hinting more and more that he wants to try again. He's not being pushy but I can tell its something he wants.
How did you know you were ready? I was devastated and I still have moments were I feel like the loss will break me. Will they ever go away?
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@mulatto_mama Happy, surprised, anxious, liberated
@batmom16 . I'm sorry for your loss. Does it feel like you didn't give yourself enough time to really grieve before "moving on"? That's how I'm feeling. And scared, of course.
We lose Harley in November, I'm due in December and I feel it was to soon. I feel guilty for having a baby this soon. Idk when I would feel more ready if that makes any sense.
@klazaro . And same. He listens if I talk about it but he doesn't say much about how he feels. He has one coworker at work who keeps forgetting and asks how the baby and I are doing. He gets frustrated then but he doesnt talk about it.
@klazaro . I'm sorry for your loss. My first was a high risk pregnancy. Another reason I'm scared. What if it's something wrong with ME? Another baby in the end would be wonderful but it's the journey that scares me.
@jellybeans_mumm . Thank you. I just dont want to let him down.
Thank you 😊 Just let it happen it will come when your ready that is what we did , you don’t want to “try” and get discouraged every single time u test negative .. you will always stress once you get pregnant but just pray about it .. ❤️❤️
@angelfoodcake . I'm sorry for your loss. How did you feel when you found out? Happy? Sad? Scared? Beyond the normal range of emotions, I mean.
@jellybeans_mumm . I'm sorry for your loss. I'm also worried that I'll stress myself out and make it worse. Maybe I should just go for it... I dont know. The fear is crippling at times when I think about having another miscarriage.
MC last March, pregnant this March, not planned though.
I miscarried twins back in November at 12-13 weeks I had to have a DNC , it was the worse pain to go through as a woman, I ended up getting pregnant a month and half later and now I’m about to be 30 weeks tomorrow I was so nervous and scared to tell anyone because of the risk, the loss will always be there, I just have something to remind me of my babies I lost.. this time around we are expecting a baby girl , and I’m still nervous I don’t think it will ever go away until I give birth, it’s a normal feeling ..
@mulatto_mama thank you that's exactly it. I wasn't near ready but we had a weekend away and I got drunk and we didn't use protection and now we have our rainbow in the way.