I haven't had one even though I've had people offer to organise one for me. They're not my cup of tea. But I do plan on having a quiet family & friends get together when she's arrived in replace of one. Never been a party song & dance person, prefer the more casual stuff x

I agree with Jodie, it depends if you want one. If you genuinely don’t want one, tell your friends as it is for you at the end of the day. I had one last week and it was great having everyone together and made me realise how loved me and baby are. Don’t worry what anyone thinks, it’s a fad from America anyways! Xxx

I guess it depends what sort of person you are if you don't mind the attention it would be fun but for me I also thought it would be awkward so I didn't have one and just invited them to see baby when he arrived instead totally up to you 😊 x

I feel the same . Not really bothered about one tbh but everyone is judging me about it lol . I’d prefer to wet the babies head after the hard work 😂😉 xx

Go for it!
I had one. I actually organised my own, Was really fun. Nothing crazy just family and a few friends and we all had a great laugh.. Everyone had a drink and were playing games.. I received some lovely gifts as well xx