@moya12814 I know the feeling

@chloecolston26, my 1 year old weighs 27lbs and it just breaks my heart when he wants me to carry him and I have to tell him no

I had five vaginal including one twin but the other ywin flipped so I had to have my first c section. The pain was so horrible for me and I thought I'd sure enough die going home to my four kids and healing correctly but once I got home it wasn't that bad. You just have to take care of it and make sure you don't bump nothing or your kids don't rush in on you while you're walking lol but they did a great job on mine, I guess it also depends on how you take care of it. You know , make sure you don't get infections etc. I kept the tummy thing they give you on a lot of the time so that helped support when I was cleaning etc.