Feeling so down today it's amazing how the man u love and invested 9 years in but can't be with…

Oh bless you. You must be hurting so much! I would have done the same in your position 😘

@jennymummy it's hard cos was only up until yesterday he was wanting to sort it out but he thinks I've cheated and as much as I adore him I can't get back with him knowing the thinks that off me just hard to let go off 9 years just like that especially being pregnant with his 2nd child too my heads scrambled 💔

Sounds to me like he needs headspace to work out what he really wants. Don’t try to change his mind, it will only drive him away more. Take a middle position where you demonstrate that you are open to working on it, but you will be concentrating on yourself your daughter and new baby. If he wants to talk he can come to you. X

Why does he think that ok you? Xx it horrible no being trusted when all you’ve been is faithful

@xstacey123x he talked me into giving up my council house and move back with him to his house then one week after I handed keys over he started this shite and basically made me and my daughter homeless so we are back in my mum's thank god she has 2 spare rooms He's Being on and off drugs since he was 14 I really do tho k he has mental health issues I've being accused off shagging a married man I work with my next door neighbour a few people it's ridiculous he actually put a recorder in my house without me knowing to try and catch me out which there would be nothing to catch me out on cos I'm always with him in my mum's his mum's or working then told me about it on mother's day which ruined that on me too family don't understand why I stay but hard to walk away from 9 years with one child and one on the way plus I feel if it is mental health I can't really stay when it's good and bail when it's bad even though technally he left me 😒😒😒

@jennymummy he needs his head checked fs no one else would put up with 1 percent off what I've put up with from him regarding drugs getting in debt lying about money verbal mental abuse but cos I think he has mental health problems I feel like I can't walk away and don't want to cos it's not fair staying when it's good and bail when it's bad even though he left me

@catherineoneill.con, I can hear that it’s complicated. I think you need to work out what your boundaries of what is acceptable and not acceptable to you in a relationship. Then reiterate your boundaries, when they are crossed you repeat the boundary then it crossed again you may need to walk away for your own wellbeing. So hard in practice tho when feelings are involved I completely appreciate that

@catherineoneill.con, doesn’t sound healthy hun. People like that are so hard to live with. Is he paranoid about cheating because he’s done it? You have to put yourself and your babies first hun. You’ve done the right thing. What will be will be. If your meant to be together her will get help and you’ll work xx

@xstacey123x that's the one thing I can trust him not to do is cheat it's cos he's being cheated on in the past but still no reason to put it on me when I've never cheated never felt the need to if I wanted to cheat I'd just walk away I know walking away is the right thing but so hard to do after 9 years and while pregnant too the thought off him eventually with someone else breaks my heart x