I hate the fact that I had to have a c section I absolutely hate it I feel So trapped almost like I…

You can have a regular birth you just need time to heal.

I never got to push my daughter out of my coochie I had to have a emergency csection and had another one right after.

@finesse.muva, it’s just a little discouraging cause I feel like even if I have a vaginal birth it’s like I can’t have it the way I want it everybody keeps saying it has to be in the hospital and I just don’t want another hospital birth

You can still have a vbac homebirth. Takes a lot of planning and positivity but I'm sure you can make it happen. You absolutely would need a good CNM though.

@kambam, what is cnm??

Certified nurse midwife

@kambam, I really would like to try it at some point but I keep getting a lot of negative feedback and it’s really discouraging

You just gotta get rid if that negativity when you decide to try for one. I wish I had a really good inforgraphic saved but I dont. Dang it. Repeat csection can be just as dangerous if not more dangerous than vbacs. I would just do as much reading as you can, join homebirth or vbac groups on Facebook. Some birthing centers might have some info for you also. But definitely take your time to heal before another pregnancy. You want your body to be in the best form for a vbac

@kambam, thank you so much I really appreciate all the positive feedback you’ve given

@jadasweet0218 Don't give up.. It was definitely in our plans with this pregnancy and my support team was very small. Sadly the pain was too much and I don't think I was prepared enough. Stay positive, ignore negative things, get all the info you need and things will work out for you. ☺

Yes❣ you can do this. I hate hearing how women regret their birth experiences and get held back by modern practices for the birth they truly desire. Even if you do fail, you will be happy you tried your best.

@mz.foy14, how did the birth end for you ?

@kambam, definitely I appreciate it

@jadasweet0218 Because we ended up moving before baby came we actually didn't have a place to give birth and I ended up going to the hospital. I can't lie, I am upset it didn't go how I prayed and planned so next time I will have a back up and research. I thon it was the contractions and not being able to breathe through those that had me end up going to the hospital. Ended up with a c-section which I truly didn't want but a healthy baby. Just prepare and stay positive. Learn all you need to know.

@mz.foy14, I’m sorry it didn’t go the way you planned and thanks for the advice and positive words

@jadasweet0218 Thanks. I just have to look at it as it's a reason why it happened. Things will work out for you. 💜

@mz.foy14, thank you 🙏

@jadasweet0218 Anytime