My 5 year olds dad is on my last nerve today, he’s mad because I politely asked him when he was…

Sounds like he has a lot of growing up to do if he cares about ever being an effective parent to your little girl.

@gorgeousmay42217, I’ve said the same he just doesn’t get it , he thinks buying he shoes and clothes is “parenting” sure it may be apart but what about dental/health insurance daycare bill, hygiene products for little girls, school supplies & food to now not only support yourself but also a dependent. He thinks it’s so easy 🙄. It drives me crazy.

@gorgeousmay42217, I’ve even explained that since she is a girl legally she would need her own bedroom at his house so his 500 dollar rent would now be about 650ish he thinks you just take the kid & let her sleep on the couch 🤦🏽‍♀️ and live off top ramon.

He needs to get his shit together, of he really wanted to show the courts that he's a great dad he would always see your daughter every chance he could and not make up some dumb ass excuses and try to make you look like the bad guy, and on top of that material items don't mean shit..... unfortunately I've been through this with my own parents and I see why my mom got custody of me , if he didn't want the responsibility of having a child he should have wrapped it up..... sorry about the rant and I'm sorry your going through this.

@alyboo102293 Yeah, she needs a place to stay. Not to mention if by any unfortunate chance some awful person were to break in or try to hurt anyone she would be the first they saw. That's not safe. I loved top ramen as a kid but even I knew at that point you can't eat just that. A grown man should have no problem feeding his child properly.

@l0gansmommy, yes girl I know he’s pathetic, he will make up every excuse in the book for not seeing her lol 😂. I work all week , I know for a fact you get 2 days off in a 7 day week because after all I get off work after he goes in and I just so happen to drive past his job on the way to daycare almost every day 🤷🏼‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️ he’s full of it man. It’ll Be I don’t have gas or I told you to bring her to me (when I’m at work) 😂. I give up.

@alyboo102293 if he doesn't care then you shouldn't either take full custody maybe he'll care when you say that he can't see her.

@incognit0, he smokes weed & I bet that’s where all his money is going. He doesn’t do it around our child because it would be his ass he knows better but he needs help.

@incognit0, lol it’s illegal in our state , I don’t care what he does I brought it up because he was so focused on complaining about having to get a second job so he couldn’t see her, etc. Almost all good jobs around here requires you to be clean and do randoms, I was saying if he was clean he could have one job & see her more & have more money then he would make at both said jobs. I don’t need his money she’s 5 I’ve not ever asked him for a thing but to be a active person in her life, I’m not bitter.

@incognit0, I mean he goes over bored though partly why we broke up , he had to have the medical grade stuff so he was spending hundreds on the shit daily 😂. I couldn’t get down with that I haven’t been with him since she was 1 but he’s outta control.

@incognit0, not at all , I don’t think he grasps the fact that she’s old enough to form her own opinions of others, he’s sinking his own ship. His only defensive response is always “ give me full custody then”. But what sense would that make , he just stated he’s struggling now he wants to take on the entirety of a dependent 🤦🏽‍♀️.