Friends just fall off when you announce your pregnant, their so happy for you for a while then they slowly start fading…

Then they weren’t really a friend to begin with

@lillys.mommy, yeah I’m slowly starting to feel that’s how it is. It’s sad because I’ve known her for 13/14 years and we grew up together. We had a fall out for a while but picked things back up again and after that it’s just been different. She also is dating my boyfriends brother and we work at the same place too.. I try and ask her to hang out but maybe I should stop, but then I feel guilty for what happened before and then I ask to hang out with her again.

@rebekah24, maybe let her come to you. You never know what she might be struggling with on the inside. Maybe she wants to have a baby too and can’t or something.

You never know.

@lillys.mommy, yeah your right, I guess I’ll just stop trying to force something to happen between me and her

Maybe your life is changing too fast for the relationship. Maybe you should try to make friends that are dealing with the same things you are.

@mhbb3, that could be it too, I have such a hard time making friends though lol. I try not to be a downer all the time either or complain a lot, this pregnancy has definitely changed me and I’m more moody so I’m in my feelings a whole lot more

@rebekah24

Me too! I've always been kind of a social outcast lol. I dont know if you go to church but I'm planning on seeking female friends there. My so and I finally found a church close to us. Imo if im gping to find friends thats the place to start.

@mhbb3, that’s a awesome idea! I used to go to church but I really want to start going again