What kind of mood do you have when you are going to be a mummy of a little girl? do you feel you are…
What kind of mood do you have when you are going to be a mummy of a little girl? do you feel you are good friends? do you feel she will leave you sooner or later so that you will spend more time on building yourself and improving yourself? Do you feel like someone else like your mother-in-law or your mother to look after her? Do you think your husband loves her more than you love her? do you think your husband may not like her at all because she is a daughter? Do you worry about the difficulties and uncomfortable experience for her to be a female? Do you think you are more important than her? Or do you think she is the world of you? I've heard many stories that many women turn out to love their daughters more than they expected. Do you agree with it?
Gina·
I don’t think gender matters, I love my daughter more than I even knew it was possible to love anyone but I’m sure it would’ve been the same if she were a boy xx
Vickie ·
@genieh I am just worried about how to balance my own life and hers😐 you know I will have little time with her if I go to work after she is born. at that time, I have to.ask someone else to look.after her.
Vickie ·
@mrsmowmow I agree with you. but I think we may not have so much time to be with her. for me, I need to work after she is born. We do not have allowances from the government to raise the baby. we need to work or a woman will have no status in her family.
Carly·
I've had 2 girls & 2 boys and I don't love them any different. I had PND with my eldest daughter which effected my bond with her but that has nothing to do with her gender more the treatment I had in hospital x
Vickie ·
@carlybeanw maybe I will understand this when the baby is born.