I cant help but feel jealous of the people who will never have to know what its like to be with a…
I cant help but feel jealous of the people who will never have to know what its like to be with a baby whos been up for 11 hours straight and people who get to go to work and spend 8 hours a day away from their kids.
Shauna·
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You continuously post these type of things. You need to seek help for yourself. Maybe you have some postpartum depression going on or something.
Self care is important. I’d be making my partner take the baby for a couple hours to get a break.
Lanie Jay·
@sunflowers_, that’s a ridiculous comment. Staying home is not for everyone and it’s not a cakewalk for many either.
I agree with @maddoxsmama, you need to take a break. Get a sitter, seek out a doctor.
ErikaK·
Try to focus on the positives! How amazing is it that your body created this little human? I found this post very inspirational: https://foreverymom.com/family-parenting/when-my-child-lost-her-joy-rachel-macy-stafford/
jenna bos·
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@erikak whats positive about screaming for 11 hours though
ErikaK·
@avianlouiebos that your baby needs your comfort and you can give that to him
ErikaK·
@avianlouiebos have you seen a doctor about his not sleeping and screaming? A baby shouls not be screaming for 11 hours. That's insane 😢
jenna bos·
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@erikak yea i saw a doctor about sleeping he didnt seem concerned and he only screams on the days im home alone with him when the fathers around and when my parents are over hes a very happy baby besides the normal amount of fussing when hungry/tired
jenna bos·
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@erikak just saw your other comment he doesnt need my comfort and i cant give it to him cause he screams all day around me, any other positives?
ErikaK·
@avianlouiebos I can't be of much help or comfort to you :( sorry.. hopefully this is just a phase!
Tanya Tanaka·
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@ib.crazyskittles18 maybe he's always fussy with you because he feels your stress and feels how upset and overwhelmed you are. Babies follow suit with your emotions and feelings. You should see a Dr about yourself because I bet if u get urself back up to par then baby boy will be much much easier!
Samantha·
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I know the days I am stuck home with my son are harder. Take him out for a walk. It will do you both some good to get fresh air and out of the house. We all get stir crazy if we are stuck at home for too long, and most babies sleep good in strollers at your sons age. Also try to reach out to local mom groups or meet up with other moms that might be in the same situation as yourself. I agree with what was said, self care is a must. Its not a luxury its a necessity. If you arent taking care of yourself you cant be the best mom you can be. If needed reach out to your doctor, if they dont listen go to someone else.