When did everyone tell people they were pregnant so all our family know and all of our close friends…
When did everyone tell people they were pregnant so all our family know and all of our close friends some of these being my work colleagues my managers know but I haven't told my other colleagues and I'm nervous to do so as I know a few of them have lost babies and I'm quite a private person at work anyway I know what work people are like and love a gossip my problem is it's getting quite difficult for my to hide my belly now but I find it a hard subject to approach especially with the ladies who have lost babies so what I'm getting at is should I tell them or let them guess for them selves I am their shift leader so don't really see or speak to them much 🤔
Lisa Whiteford·
I would just tell them Hun, they may take it the other way and be hurt that you never said anything to them and they had to find out through other people, as woman can be weird lol x
Mummy To Kai&Brodie 💙·
when I lost my first baby a girl I worked with announced she was pregnant couple of months after me she sadly lost here too, when she announced she was pregnant I was happy for her but couldn't help feel jealous, I would tell them cause they'll more than likely guess soon lol x
Jennifer Poulter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@nataliielouiseexo, I know what you mean it's a tough thing to talk about one lady had an eptopic pregnancy and had to have her ovary removed and other one had a stillborn and then a preemie who passed away at 12 days and I feel guilty I know I shouldn't but they are lovely people and I know that it will upset them then again I know me hiding my pregnancy will upset them too it's just so hard for me to actually say it I find easier telling people off that saying I'm having a baby lol x
Jennifer Poulter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@whiteford.lisa05, yes we are strange people I just need to figure out a way of saying it lol x
Lisa Whiteford·
@jennypoulter, lol yeah totally agree, yeah sorry I don’t have any advice with that one x
Carly·
We didn't tell anyone other then close family / friends. I made an announcement the day after she was born! You don't have to tell everyone of you don't want to x
Jennifer Poulter·
Мама троих детей, ждёт четвёртого
@carlybeanw, how did you hide your bump though mines getting quite noticeable lol it's just to me work friends aren't really friends like some are but these are more acquaintances and I don't want them all gossiping about me x
Carly·
@jennypoulter I didnt. It was hard having to explain to family that Olivia was poorly & I couldn't bare having to tell everyone. Work found out & all supervisors were told not to say anything (I told my boss she was unwell & it was agreed that it wouldn't be made public) sadly one supervisor made it her gossip to pass around but as soon as I found out I went in and saw her. I was in bed rest most of the time so I didn't see anyone that didn't already know! We had a lot of shock reactions when we told everyone. x