Ever since I moved down to the south, I’ve let myself go... I’ve gained 40 pounds, hair started falling out, face started breaking out more, I’ve stopped wearing clothes that fit and started wearing men’s shirts, I’ve stopped getting my hair done regularly, I don’t listen to my music, I don’t bake anymore, I don’t write anymore and I hardly sing... I was depressed way before I had my son and now it’s just worse.... but sitting here on the bathroom floor watching him splash in the tub I’ve realized: I don’t want my son to know this Mitia... I want him to be proud of who his mother is... so yes I’m starting school next week, I’m going to put him in daycare when he turns 1 and I’m going to use my certificate in I.T from school and get a part time job.... I’m going to use the refund to get my hair done and nails done and buy some clothes that fit... next couple of months I’ll get my license so I don’t have to depend on my husband to take us everywhere.... I want to be someone my son will look up to and I promise him, he will have it
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
Science!
My friend posted this on facebook last night and said her kids were asleep within minutes. It's a song that scientists created to help people fall asleep. I was skeptical but I thought what the hay, I'll try it out. I didn't bank on Dh falling asleep, but both him and lo were asleep by minute 2. And lo slept six straight hours. ?
Starting TWW. Anyone else?
I had a stillborn daughter at 38 weeks this passed Nov. This is my second month ttc. (Last month we only tried for like two weeks though). My last and only pregnancy, I got pregnant the first month of ttc so I hope it's quick this time again.
Trigger. Lost baby
Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
You got this mama!