What would you say to a woman who knows your pregnant and in a relationship with your spouse but…

I would tell her I'm aware that my SO has been talking to her and say you know we're together, I'm the mother of his child, I would appreciate it if you ended this and left my family alone. And then once that's taken care of I would address my SO about the situation separately.

Just let it go .. whats the point of going after her if your "SO" was the one who kept the fire going ... you cant control what others do . If you put your attention to her shes goon act like shes winning . Nahh just let it go and let your SO go too . He wants to act single then let him act like it . Dont let nobody fool you girl .

@hazelmaplewood, oh they are both equal in this situation, both did it. Both knew openly trying to hide it from me and both obv knew I was abt to have a baby!

And he was even sending her pics of our baby and she was liking them of fb!! How fu$king disrespectful

@emily526, I like how u started that, thank you

@joyfulmom2b Either you brake up with him or his going to brake up with you ? are yall even still together ?

@joyfulmom2b I know other people are probably going to say let it go. But I know if I was in this situation there's no way I'd be able to let it go because I'm petty AF lol

I'd definitely put a warning out to her and say look, I know y'all are both guilty of this but it needs to end now. I just has his baby 5 days ago and it's time for him to grow up and take responsibility. Then basically say the same thing to him...

You need to leave but based on your post I’m assuming your not. Good luck.

Not care. No one can sleep with my husband unless he wants to. So if he does, he’s out. Why blame the woman?!? She’s gross, but owes you nothing. Kick his cheating ass to the curb. If it’s not her, it’ll be someone else.

@hazelmaplewood, Yeah I believe so, we didn’t really go into that, more so my complete disappointment and disgust and nothing he says is gonna justify his actions

@ladyblauvelt.skysmomma, agreed! Ty

@laniejay, it’s both of them like they both know, he knows i know, and she needs to know, so she can possibly learn how filthy her actions are. Someone who feels that is ok, specially when u have a child also is bs. Grow up, both of them. U should have much more important things to be doing besides being attention whores and behaving like whores

@joyfulmom2b, she doesn’t care. Your words are meaningless other than letting her know she bothered you. Deal with him. Boot his ass to the curb. Don’t blame her because she’s merely giving him the hole to put it in.

She may know but she is not in a relationship with you she’s not your friend she owes you no loyalty if your man is entertaining her in her eyes he’s a free man cause he clearly isn’t acting like he’s in a relationship. I know it’s hard to take in when you are in love but this is 1000% on your man not the woman, if he didn’t entertain it she couldn’t have done anything.

@mimixtmn, @laniejay, it is and isn’t. She hit him up with all this crap, she clearly knew we wasn’t single n had a kid coming. And u guys are right but point being, me just saying I know, and that she’s complete trash for it; would make me feel less foolish, and maybe one day in her head it will click women shouldn’t behave like damn dogs either. She needs to focus on her kid and her custody issue and not ruin another family bc she wants to act like that YUCK

@joyfulmom2b, the point is whether she knew or not your man made himself appear single. You can’t do anything about her morals or what she does with her time, she is not in a relationship with you isn’t your friend so she owes you nothing. Your man is the problem he should have ignored her when she hit him up like any other respectable man in a relationship. A girl sent my man a nude pic before, he didn’t respond he showed me we laughed about it and he blocked her. The only person who is wrong is your man he knew he had a woman he knew he was about to have a baby and he didn’t care. She was able to act like a dog because your husband was allowing her to and being a dog with her. Saying anything to her is just going to make you look more foolish because at the end of the day your man was the only one who was disloyal.

@joyfulmom2b, you can’t tempt someone that isn’t looking. You can’t steal a man that doesn’t want to be stolen. If a man is loyal- no amount of putting it out there will be successful. My husband gets hit on all the time, even in front of me. I couldn’t care less. I know he’s not going to stray. We laugh about it together. If she’s a hoe, she’s a hoe - you calling her out won’t do anything. You should focus on your man who you’re going to let get away with it and this you’ve shown him he can do this again. Enjoy. Get tested regularly.

@mimixtmn, u do have points on a lot of stuff, but he didn’t make himself appear single, they both talked abt how they knew abt him dating me and abt my child almost being here.

I can’t wrap my head around that at all

@joyfulmom2b, when I say appear single I don’t mean by saying he was by the way he entertained her convos. Are you sure they didn’t sleep together?

@laniejay, I’ve been restricted on sex during pregnancy, and really bitched abt that. @mimixtmn,

But also he claims he didn’t actually meet up with her, but he also claimed it was only when we fought but I showed him the screenshots of it continuing throughout April may March and June

@mimixtmn, no, I’d be completely foolish to believe anything he has to say rn

@joyfulmom2b, yes, but you’re clearly not going to respect yourself and leave him. So he will do it again.