I’ve been with my boyfriend for four years now and ever since our son was born I feel like we don’t…

I’m going through the same thing. Right now our daughter has been our main focus but I wish we could get more time alone and reconnect. We love each other but we don’t show it that much anymore.

Its hard especially with children. Do you have someone who will watch your son so you can do a date night? Or even plan a date night in after he goes down?

I'm often guilty of just being too tired for my husband but I'm trying hard to work on us. When my youngest is napping the oldest goes to his room for quiet time and we just have an alone cuddle sesh on the couch. After they're in bed I try to stay up for an hour to talk and lay with him for an hour and o obviously do the deed a few times a week.

I've been feeling this lately too, & our babies seem to be close in age. Hoping it's just a stage, & you find some satisfaction soon!

Thank you, you too!

If you can, find someone to watch your son so that you can have some time alone together. My husband and I were starting to feel that way too so he planned a fun date. It had been over a year since we dated without any kids and it helped a lot. :)

I've been with my SO for a little more than 10yrs and we don't have any children together ttc one now but i feel the same, i don't see that love in his eyes when he looks at me any more.. And he tells me love you but he doesn't show me enough love and affections. I feel actions speaks louder than words. Maybe it's because there is no challenge and the excitement of being in love is gone.,.. I don't know, he says it's all just in my head...