Warning long venting. I'm not trying to bash anyone or anything I understand we all fall on hard…

WTFFFFFFFFF. He offered to let them use your car AND your gift card?! Nope. Nope. NOPE. And I would block them on fb.

There just taking full advantage of yall.

They sound like people who would annoy me cuz they’re use to getting stuff for free.

And id have a longgg ass talk with my so if he offered to give away my shit. Especially if it involved food.

Your husband needs to get his head out of his ass. He offered YOUR gift card to someone else? I wouldn’t mind letting a friend in need borrow a car for a date night but using your car, watching their kids AND on your dime? HELL NO.

Don’t respond to her and tell your husband to take care of it.

Thanks everyone I'm trying not to go off on all of them I have drama but damn I'm a little pissed

Woooahhh this is tew much! Yeah too much girl

@blessedmommy23 nahh momma. Id done flipped my lid. We struggle paycheck to paycheck just to make ends meet. We arent out here asking someone for handouts. The most we ask anyone for is to watch ds so i can do some side work (clean house etc) to make some cash for bills or food. My so carpools to his training but they alternate days or he pays for the other guys gas. No way would he drive someone to and from work on a different shift. And then offer someone sonething thats not his but mine. No. Hell no. You need to tell him to get his head out of his ass and realise its not his place to go that far and help someone. They need to go elsewhere.

This is when you get to leave your husband home with the kids and drive your car to Applebee’s and Treat Yo Self

@csavvy I think I might

@cprater0033 my husband don't even ask for gas he says the only reason why he dose it is for his kids I mean we help these people all the time just last week. I gave them five trash bags full of clothes I buy boutique outfits for my daughter for 30$ and Everytime I post on Facebook of my daughter in her outfits his wife comments oh do I get that next I can't tell you how many times she has done that

@blessedmommy23, Your husband has a good heart, but they are taking advantage. His wife should be embarrassed asking you how much is on the gift card!

@preciouslove he's a very kind man I love him so much but I kinda wish he would stop I wouldn't be so mad if he would have asked me about the card and I hope they can get a car soon school starts in August and our sons will be going to school together and there is no way we can do all that running for them

@blessedmommy23, Girl no way they are not your guys problem, they need to manage their money better.

@blessedmommy23 yeah, cut her off now. Shes just using you all for your kindness. Delete and block them from your life. I cut people off fast for that

@preciouslove the thing is he can get overtime he can make up to 900$ a week but he won't to it my husband only take one day off a week then back to it

@cprater0033 I'm going to I can't handle it anymore

@blessedmommy23 i would no one needs that

The sad truth is they are users. I wouldn’t DARE ask someone for their things and expect it to be FREE!!! But then again I was raised to work your ass off for what you have. The sad truth also is they probably have money in savings and pretend they are broke. Some people just have NO work ethic and sadly they don’t need it cuz everyone enables them. I guess I was just raised differently

Oohhhhh hellllllll no! I'd flip shit! This is why it's hard to be nice to people they take advantage. Sounds like the friend needs to work more overtime to buy himself a car or a bus ticket. And your husband....nice of him to want to be so helpful but he should have asked you and he clearly can't see they need to help themselves first!

Don't let other people or influences cause strife in your marriage.

I’m flabbergasted that your husband wanted to put all that extra stress on you to help those low life’s. I’d block her and him and just continue life not talking to them. I’d also tell my husband to quit giving the guy rides if he’s not contributing towards gas.

@blessedmommy23,

@whoswhoo i actually asked my husband to start asking for gas money he said he don't want to take away from his kids

But he’d take money from his wife and kids? @blessedmommy23,

@whoswhoo exactly

@blessedmommy23, did you tell him that lol