@lii94 omg. U too! I don't have the bladder part but I can so see how it would happen. I'm looking into Bellefit girdle to help with the one side bigger issue.
Im numb right above my incision, one side is bigger then the other, and i just started to feel my bladder last month lol i just went pee cause id notice it had been awhile i hadnt gone 🤷
My 'under belly' is numb always. Most the time I can't even feel if something is pressing very hard against it. Definitely something I wasn't prepared for.